(The Object of Your Affection)
You can't choose your crushes.
Sometimes they sneak up on you and -
wow - who was that? Your crush might
be a classmate, a neighbor, your best
friend's crush, an older kid, a friend of
your brother or sister, a sister or brother of a friend, or a teacher at your school. Your crush could even be on someone you
don't know, like a professional athlete or
a celebrity. When the crush is on
someone you don't know, you might
imagine what that person is like. Maybe
you think about what it would be like to meet that person, even though you know
you probably never will. It's still fun to
imagine! You might find yourself writing the name
of your crush over and over again in a
notebook or telling a good friend about
that special person you like so much.
Crushes might last a few days, weeks,
months, or longer.
Some people call first loves or first
crushes "puppy love" because these
feelings are new to you, you're young,
and you don't have much experience with
life. You're the puppy! Get it? Think about
how a puppy is so excited and happy with everything new in its life - from a
rubber bone to an old shoe. But when
your feelings seem real and strong, it
may not seem like puppy love to you.
When you have a crush on someone and
you find out that he or she likes you, too,
it's a wonderful feeling. But sometimes it
doesn't work out that way. It's hard to
find out that the person you like doesn't
feel the same way about you. You might feel sad, disappointed, and rejected. That sad feeling is called heartbreak, even
though your heart isn't really breaking
into pieces. If you feel heartbreak, those
feelings can last for a while, but they will
fade. Another word about heartbreak: Try to
be kind if you're on the other end of a
crush - when someone likes you. It's a
compliment when someone thinks you're
special. If you don't feel the same way,
try to tell him or her in a nice way. Crushes are new and exciting, so enjoy
them while they last. Someday, you'll be
telling your own kids about your first
crush!
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wew, boredom sucks.
Done reading that book about 'crushes' for how many times ..
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MY CRUSHLIFE STORY by: FoxyImperfect
Teen FictionShe is admired from afar. These admirers court her in secret, in the safety of their dreams.