What Goes in to Getting Off

Techniques

So this area is meant to be an open (but still private and anonymous) discussion for how to get off or anything related to sex, so we all can learn more and know more about how to have wonderful, fulfilling sex lives.  Whether we accept it or deny and try to hide it, sex is a part of every one of our lives.  Send me your suggestions and ideas on what you heard works for people or what you are exploring.  (Unfortunately nobody has sent me any ideas yet so please, do!).

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What specific techniques or things work best for getting off in your opinion?  Or what do you think makes for a lovely and fulfilling sex life?

Here's one technique I just learned about:

Edging.  If you haven't tried this I highly recommend it.  I've given it a go a couple of times now and it is amazing!!!  It's basically where you take yourself to the very edge of orgasming and then stop or slow down so you don't.  I mean like right to the last second!  Then you start again and bring yourself right to the edge of orgasming again, and just as you are about to, you stop.  Or if you are really good, you just keep going slowly to keep that heightened state of your body just about to cum.  Keep doing this as many times as you can for as long as you can (I could only last 5 minutes but it took my typical orgasm from lasting about 10 seconds to lasting on and off for 5 minutes!  so it's worth it!).  It takes a lot of self discipline to accomplish this but keeping your body right on the edge of orgasming not only feels incredible but also once you can't take it any longer and you do orgasm, it's likely going to be one heck of an orgasm!  You can do this by yourself and/or with a partner but I would imagine you would need to be very in tune with your partner and he or she would need to communicate with you clearly so you know when to stop and pull back before they go over the edge.  Edging -- a whole new level to enjoying getting off!  :)

A/N UPDATE: Ok no comments or suggestions have been sent yet for this section.  And that's ok -- I just am curious to know, readers, if this book gave you what you were looking for or if you thought it was going to be something else and you left feeling empty? 

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