Get to know me?

rant

It's 4 am but I don't care time to RANT!

Let's begin...

So there's this guy in my school, I'm going to call him Jerkwad. I have science class with a friend of mine, and he's in this class as well. I worked with my friend in class, and I sat at her table. Jerkwad sat there, and I sat next to him because that's where an open seat was.

He looked at me and says with a straight face, "I'm trying to guess your sexuality. I have a feeling you're into...Guys."

So I look at Maddie awkwardly but say nothing because it's slightly right I guess (if you don't know, I'm pansexual) and I didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable.

So we start working on the classwork, but then he asks me, "are you a feminist?"

I shrug. "I guess so."

He groans. "seriously?!"

Me: "Well I mean, I think everybody's got equal rights."

Jerkwad: "So you believe in equality."

Me: "Isn't that what being a feminist is?"

Jerkwad: "Nah, man, it's totally different."

Erm okay, I don't know if that's true, I didn't check.

but cOOL YOUR MAN TITTIES JERKWAD I DIDNT KNOW JFC.

My friend speaks up and tells him to work and sends me an apologetic smile because you know she's nice and everything 👍.

Then later on he asks yet ANOTHER FREAKING QUESTION.

He asks...

Wait for it...

"Do you believe that there is more than two genders?"

And I reply with, quickly, "of course there is."

And he blows up.

Jerkwad: "THATS INSANE! ITS LIKE GOING ON TUMBLR AND SAYING 'I IDENTIFY AS A COUCH.' ITS SO DUMB, THERE ARE 2 GENDERS FOR A REASON AND ONLY TWO."

And we end up fighting about this. I reply with, "Some people identify as both or neither. You know, agender and everything!"

Jerkwad: "NO THATS DUMB AND UNNEEDED. YOU'RE EITHER A GIRL OR A BOY."

Me: "well you're just an asshole."

I regret saying that because we started lowkey fighting (the substitute didn't even notice) and I tried to ignore him but he continued to whine about my beliefs.

When we finished and I stand up to leave the table, Jerkwad says, "I hate you now, even more than I did before."

I said like the rude, cocky little b-word I am: "the feelings mutual."

And my friend looked SO UNCOMFORTABLE, I felt so bad but then she said to Jerkwad: "Yeah I'm pretty sure everyone at this table hates you."

So I wrote this to say, if you have different beliefs than someone else, respect it. I tried to keep my cool with him and respect HIS beliefs, but it bothered me so much.

I can't wait until I date someone who doesn't identify as a gender/indentifies as both so that I can annoy the hell out of him 😂.

I really wish I said to him that I'm pansexual and not only into guys, because he already knew I've dated a girl before. He wouldn't leave me alone and he made a homophobic remark and I said, "hey I like girls and guys, so watch it." He didn't talk to me for weeks 👍😂. But I guess he forgot(?).

This happened awhile ago but I randomly remembered it and it irritates me. Don't be so simple minded.

Sorry that this is so long, it's longer than your boyfriend (🌚), I don't have an excuse.