"The worst part about being strong is that no one ever asks if your okay" taiga, toradora
So for those of you who don't know what toradora is and can see the picture up too and see this little sweet in ice times girl a quick background is that taiga is in fact a deadly force to be reckoned with
So April si never a good month for me because a lot of bad things have happened to me in the month of April so there may be a lot of sad quotes for April but I do want everyone to take something good out of these and starting off with this one just seemed fitting for me. The first thing I want to point out about this quote is that it's completely and utterly true I mean at my school I'm the popular kid and the "popular kids brother" and I get good grades I follow the rules and because of that people put me on this pedestal and they don't realize that when things happen it affects me and I've never liked that I've never liked the fact that when something happens there isn't anyone for me to talk to about that.
And you know I think we're all guilty of this I mean there's gotta be someone in your life that you put on a pedestal maybe it's the popular girl or the football player, maybe it's the guy with perfect grades or the girl with flawless skin we all have these people that we don't see things affecting them because they look strong they act tough because they want people to think they're strong and I always want to touch on another quote that pairs with this one well that I will go deeper into later and this is this one:
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"All the hardest, coldest people you meet, were once as soft as water. And that's the tragedy of living" unknown
I like these quotes together because if we don't ask someone if their ok then they can become a person who has to retreat into themselves and act hard and cold because then things don't phase them and everyone around them takes them off that pedestal that they were on and starts to forget them as they fade away and I know that for me having those 2 or 3 friends who will ask me if I'm okay when I'm not feeling happy that....... that makes all the difference in my life so I just want people to see this and think that you should be asking these people if they're ok they're not perfect they can be left unfazed and that other people see this and think that maybe it's time to stop acting strong and show people that you can be hurt that you can be phased by their words and the things that happen in the world around you
