When you’re in high school most kids will end up having a crush but don’t know how to approach them, talk to them, act around them, or they don’t know if they’re friend zoned. In this passage I will give you steps and advise on how to get your teen crush (or any other crush). I choose this topic because I myself am in High school and when I look around I see how people react around each other. I see how shy people can get around their crush and you always have that one friend that knows about the crush and pushes you to talk but when you do your words get jumbled up and you don’t now what to say You end up walking away even worse then you were before. Or you’re in the situation where you like the person, you guys talk all the time but you don’t know if your friend zoned or if he/she likes you to. I am here to help you with that by the time I’m done you will know what to say to your crush and what kind of relation you will have.
If you don’t know what a crush is or how you feel when you have one. That’s why I’m here also. Having a crush on someone can be both exciting and terrifying. Sometimes, it's hard to determine if you even have a crush on someone or not. Urban Dictionary defines a crush as “a burning desire to be with someone who you find very attractive and extremely special.” Crushes make you feel crazy emotions--like feeling super shy and uncontrollably giddy at the same time. You know when you have a crush on someone when you start thinking about them every minute of the day. You care about them in a way that you wouldn't usually. You always care about what they think about you and you get a weird feeling in your stomach when they are around you. You can’t choose who you have a crush on, but you can choose how you react once you figure out that you have a crush on someone.
Now since all of that is cleared here are a few steps on how to get your teen crush. First you have to judge your current relationship with your crush and see how they are in a personal aspect to see how you should approach them so it would make you both comfortable (you wouldn’t want to scare him/her away). For example if your crush is shy you wouldn’t want to approach them loud and obnoxiously. For that specific trait you would want to approach them in a calm smooth manner. If they are blunt and outgoing you shouldn’t approach them in a shy smooth manner. You should approach them directly and honestly. It all depends on who they are but you get where I’m going.
Next Talk with your crush to get to know them more personally ask them to go to a movie or for lunch. If you don’t want to be alone that quick for some reason offer to get together with some mutual friends to break the ice (seeing how they react around friends with you is another good way to understand them better). If you’re a girl and don’t like asking guys on “dates” talk about it to him or even tell him to join you and your friend’s somewhere. You can even say everyone has a date but you so it seems like yeah you want him to go but its your only option. You can use anyway that suits you the best.
Third watch their body language when they are around you, check to see if they listen to you and how they speak to you. understanding their body language can help you find out where you are in your relationship. Make sure that you use proper body language and listen to them to. If you do not use the right body language and listen to them they might think you’re not interested in them. Which in your position I believe that would be horrible am I right? So make sure to use proper body language so you both understand where each other is coming from
The fourth thing you would want to do is talk to them about both of your interests get to know them on a personal level. See how much you have in common how compatible you both are. Think of qualities that are important in a relationship to you for example trust, humor, Etc. It is important to know more about the person to understand them and know how well you will get along together before you get in a serious relationship.
The last step you have to be ready and brave for admit to your crush how you feel about them by letting them know in person. Expressing to them how you feel in person gives them to respond truthfully and it shows them how confident you are about your decision. Telling them in person also gives you both the opportunity to discuss whether to move into the relationship, to wait, or to stay as friends. Once you tell your crush how you feel about him/her give them time to think about it don’t just run into conclusions give them time to think you never know how they feel for all you know they could be in complete shock. When they have calmed down ask them how they feel about you and how they feel about the situation. Hopefully they like you back and everything goes well for you.
Lastly if things don’t go exactly as planned don’t get bummed out or hurt. Move on I bet your too good for them anyway just remember don’t worry about what people think of you. Don’t give up on love it will come to maybe you’ll be looking maybe you won’t be looking but it will come to you. Well I hope that my expository helped you in getting your teen crush or any crush for that matter. Believe it or not it helped me a bit too. I’m going to go use some of this on my best friend because god only knows she needs it.
