i know that we were different than we were back in college. Some of us had already experiences in that field and is still in the same relationship since college. But most of us, in our pack of weirdos and misfits, had never been in one.
So I'm dedicating this short drabble to the few of us singles and never-been-dating people in the group.
And to be fair, this isn't accurate at all. Probably just close to precise.
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Leah: The Adorkable Gf
-She's gotta be that type of girlfriend that makes the One guy laugh a lot. Maybe that's one of the reasons why they became together in the first place.
-One of the main reasons they fight is because she always come late to any event they meet up for
- She's not showy with her affections. But is so expressive in the private group message. Constantly sharing how proud she is, how cute and sweet the guy is or how great the guy is.
- her the One may probably be somebody who helps out on any problem the group has
- She would recommend low key dates. Nevaer spends too much. Sometimes forget anniversaries.
-They would last though. Because she's a keeper type. They would be very different in temperament but there's a common ground to both of them that would undoubtedly assure the group that they're meant for each other.
-She would have the One, both Bf and Husband.
Dayvee: The No nonsense-Nonsense Gf
- She will have a lot of dating experiences. She already has, with imaginary people. So that first statement was figurative.
- Her the One would probably be someone she knew for a long time. Someone she is very comfortable already.
- They had to be dating already for a while before actually knowing they are.
- She would irate the bf for always comparing him with imaginary characters like, "Why don't you have abs like *insert name here*?" or "He is hot right? Should I pair you with him? That will be fun to imagine."
- They wouldn't have any money issues. But they would seem to have a problem spending it. He's a geek with a bum fashion, and she's a lab employee with no fashion sense at all.
- Their spoken signs of affection is limited to "Hn." "K" "Sup?" "Night." and Vice versa. The only evidence that they're together is the constant holding of hands while scanning through their gadgets individually.
- He is special to her in a sense that he's the only person that she likes or regards to with interest that is not an anime or manga character.
- They kiss a lot. Have make-up sessions a lot.
- They would just probably get married if the elders in both families will start pestering them.
Joan: The Blushing Gf
- She didn't expect him to be single. He didn't thought she liked him.
- She's the type of gf that had fallen into that stage in life in a surprise.
- The One, like the previous ones, would be the Only One too. Because unexpectedly, they love each other head over heels. Even if its not obvious to the world.
- she would be the doting gf that thinks hard what to give him in anniversaries or birthdays or Christmas because the One is so dedicated to it too.
- They would have a fast paced life as successful individuals in their own field, and would probably just be interacting at home, where they would be living in together even before wedlock
- She will be the best version of herself before meeting him, but be the best feminine version of herself after being in a relationship with him
- They will fight because of overthinking things most of the times. Rumors would threaten their trust for each other and miscommunication will add salt to the wound. Laughing would bring them back together everytime.
- She loves dogs, and he will learn to
- She will probably be open to them doing it before marriage, but he wouldn't want to.
- They rarely go on dates, much less meet up with the other couples because of work, but they're going to be the group's relationship goals because of their solidarity.
- She's going to be secretly insecure of his exes and will try hard to be better than all of them, even trying to improve on her joking skills.
- He's probably of Chinese descent. And they would marry only after a year of being together.
Joyce: The Alpha Softie gf
- She will meet her list of boyfriends at the rare moments in her life when romance is the least of her priorities, and fantasies.
- She will be wooed over with old-fashioned love letters and balcony serenades.
- Her family wouldn't know half of the guys she will date. And the ones they do know, would be someone they will dislike on the spot.
- She will be the dominant one in relationships. She will care too much, give too much and feel too much.
- She would always be disappointed, but she will remain hopeful until the guys she will like will ruin her hopes with cheating, asking perverted requests or being verbally abusive.
- The One won't be the Only, obviously. But he would come in a random situation, a reunion or a new introduction at work or a simple event of chivalry.
- She would deny her feelings for him, after all she put through in past relationships. Cheesiness in classic courtship would just chase her away.
- But one big gesture of love would give her away big time.
- She will be the shy one in the relarionship now. And she will still try to distance herself from falling harder for her OTP
- He will treasure her, even though she wouldn't believe it half of the time
- They will not be a showy couple but their dates would be the most romantic ones aesthetically among the group
- She will usually start an argument, and his gentleness with her would make her angrier. And his unwavering affection for her, along with his kisses, would melt her anger away
- They would probably only marry after a very big event, even if The One had been proposing to her countless times already, and her family constantly pestering her to say yes.
Me: Worst gf
- I won't have an Only One either.
- I'll meet and date guys hoping and being disappointed in the end that they're not the one I was hoping to meet.
- I would be prone to displays of affection and private events of foreplay.
- Dating and Work are my only occupations in life, so most of the guys I will meet will probably circle on that two occupations too (future patient, future S.O of a patient, a neighbor, a workmate or someone I'll meet in a bar or bookstore or as silly as somebody I bump my bumper with)
- Dates would be limited to house lounging, movies and evening chat with alcohol in the background. I might even throw in some headphone splitter strolling dates if its my day off and the sun is on the other side of the planet
- Brokenheartedness is as natural as my introversion and depression
- I'll probably end up believing I'll end up dying single and being the only unmarried one in the family or in the friendship bunch.
- The One (I wish exists) will probably be someone who comes when my standards in men would sink to its all time low. It would be something of a miracle if its somebody who will save my timecapsule letters (addressed to him) right before my mind will think of destroying them or throwing them. Straight out of a movie, he will appear there reading it unintentionally and handing it out to me like an ordinary passerby will do. And it will not be love at first sight.
- The One would be the first one I will introduce to my parents, and ask to punch my asshole first love in the face, and would probably be somebody who will manage me best.
- I'll be the worst girlfriend he had ever had, too insecure, too busy, too alcoholic, too lazy to go out and enjoy the sun, too emo or too touchy. And he will still stay, urge me to go on Sunday mass together, allow me to be clingy on public and stay indoors where I like best.
- I'm going to be the type of girlfriend who will say yes even before he finishes his long marriage proposal speech and will have wedding jitters months before the actual wedding.
- All of the weirdos would be my married bridesmaids. So yeah, it would be our graduation from single and miserable people to married and happily ever after heroines.
