To his new girlfriend,
Loving isn't all about the feelings. Loving a person includes understanding, efforts, sacrifices, and appreciation. In a relationship you must give space to each individual. Give space to their hobbies, likes or anything that makes them happy. You can be possessive but know where to stop.
A relationship includes fights, arguments and such. It's not all about the cuddling, sweet words, gestures, kisses, holding hands, smiles, laughter and other things. There are times when one will almost give up but please, hold the hand of the other and fix everything. Love isn't all about love. When you love, you shall commit. When you love, you accept every flaws and imperfections you partner has.
But I was foolish enough to disregard all of his sacrifices, efforts, everything. I didn't appreciate the love his giving me. I'm all but just words and not actions but I know deep in my heart that I love him. I took him for granted because I thought that he loves me so much na Hindi niya ako magagawang iwan pero napuno na ata siya. He left me. He left me because I didn't appreciate him. He found that appreciation to someone else. Someone he deserves and that's you. I want to be happy. But damn I'm selfish. I want him to be mine again. I miss those possessive words of his. Namimiss ko yung pagkasakal niya sa akin, yung paghihigpit niya kasi alam kong sobrang takot siyang mawala ako sa kanya. I miss him so damn much. Pero alam kong hindi na pwede. I realized it too late. Narealize ko nung wala na siya sa akin. He found the happiness that I failed to give . Kaya pag naging possessive na siya, appreciate it. Ang swerte mo sa kanya. Alam kong mahal na mahal ka niya higit pa sa pagmamahal niya sa akin. Mahalin mo siya higit sa pagmamahal niya sayo. Thank you kasi dumating ka. You filled those holes in his heart. You made him complete. Thank you. Have a happy life the both of you
