Inspiration

1.) Love

Ladies. I'm gonna let you in on a little secret here. Not every guy you fall for is 'the one'. I know that at first it feels this way, but then you forget this feeling, and then you experience the same feeling all over again with the next time you like someone.

I know it feels terrible when someone you like doesn't like you back. I know, but the most common mistake a girl can make is falling for another guy to get over the first guy.

I learned this the hard way. I've been doing the fall for someone new thing ALL year. It finally backfired on me. Ofcourse the falling for someone knew soothes the heartbreak of the first guy, but honestly aren't you just creating another problem? It's a cyclical pattern. What happens when your rebound crush ends badly. Then you go for another guy. It is a vicious cycle. Everyone has the power to convince themselves to like someone. I don't care if you can't see someone that way or barely know them if you invite those 'liking' someone feelings in they will come everytime. Story time.

So recently I was trying to get over this one guy so I decided to like one of my guy friends because apparently I thought that this would be the best idea ever. What could possibly go wrong? Huh, a lot. At first the feelings were small managable. Enough to ease the heartbreak, but not a lot to cause more. Although this started out as a good thing and seemed to be ending well things went down hill really quickly. A few things happen at school next thing I know I actually like him a lot. Out of no where. A matter of minutes is all it takes to take a small crush to majorly liking someone. A few days go by at this point I'm like 'I gotta find out.' And I find out that he doesn't like me like that at all, he's avoiding me, doesn't want to lead me on. Blah blah blah. You get the point. Well I was devastated ya know? As any girl is when this situation happens, history repeats itself. If you aren't careful it will happen again. So as I'm like getting over this guy ofcourse the temptation of choosing someone else to like comes to mind, but this time it's going to be different. This right here, this cycle doesn't work. At all. It never has a happy ending. You have to let the guy come to you, if you start developing feelings for someone and it's really natural for you let them come. It's meant to be. But, if you choose someone, nothings going to happen. You can't choose these things they have to happen naturally. Honestly.

Moral of the story: Don't choose a guy to like to get over a different guy. Let a guy come to you.

Everyone that you meet, everyone that you fall for. You fall for, for a reason. Everything bad that happens to you have some type of benefit to you. It may take days, weeks, months to realize it, but something good always comes out of a bad situation. But, this is a whole different lesson.

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