People are all the same. We are all creatures of habit and, therefore, fear the unknown. We take our walls down for select people and on fewer occasions. I for one have grown out of that fear. See the silver lining behind letting your emotions out and feeling vulnerable is somebody, somewhere, sometime will catch you. Being caught is the best feeling in the world. So now I let myself be vulnerable all the time to see who is able to catch me and give me that good feeling. If you can't catch me I know damn well some of my friends and family will. To be honest the pain of not being caught is what gives you the best feeling in the world when you are caught. Silver linings;)