Part 3

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          Asexual. What does that mean? Well it means a person who don't desire sexual feelings. Some say that it's a person who doesn't feel anything. But then again that's only some people. Now an Asexual is a person who prefers romantic over sex. They like kisses and cuddles not sex or something like sex.
         How ever like most things there are problems from this as well besides the religion and well schools. First off some people believe that an Asexual are people who can't get laid. That's not really true because an Asexual person didn't choose this it was just something that they were born with. Same with Gays, Trans, and bisexual. So saying they're people who can't get laid is far from the truth.
         Some say it's because they want to wait for marriage or waiting for the right one. But really what if that person is already dating someone? Again like I said in the beginning they are only interested in the romantic relationship not sex. Which is lead by people thinking sex is more important then anything else. When really it's not. I mean yeah it might be good for people but again it's only for creating kids and babies which isn't really important in life or relationship.
          Let me explain. We humans need to sleep,eat, and drink water. If we don't sleep then we can die from not having it including if you stress yourself out from work or school. Eating is something we have to do or else our body just slowly shut down and we die. Drinking water or anything will keep us from actually be dehydrated and sometimes prevent us from having heat strokes so that's important. Then sex we can survive without it. Now if you lock yourself in a room then you'll have depression and well might turn crazy. So we need someone to talk to but not to have sex with someone. Does that make sense? I hope it does.
        Now relationship wise. To have a healthy relationship you first have to listen to each other. Be honest with each other. Make sure each side of both you and your partner equally. And also gives each other space every once and a while. How will that help? If you're honest with each other then nothing can happen later. If you listen to the mistakes you did then you can fix it. Making equality for you and your partner not only prove you care about they like to do for once it also have reason on why you love this person so much and who knows you guys might like the same tv shows. Then giving people space. Every relationship needs to have this so it doesn't feel like a cage your trap in.
        Now in all of that do we honestly think we still need sex in that relationship? It's healthy and it shows that it's not just the body they have but what's on the inside the kindness we see with love one even for a moment.
          Anyways moving on! I just love how people say there's no scientific evidence that Asexual do exist so it must not be a real thing. Well guess what there's no scientific evidence that the world we live in is the world we really know? So does that mean the world isn't a real thing?
My point is that just because science hasn't done it's job about the new and improved world doesn't mean it's not a thing. They don't reshreach about gays. Or innsex. Or trans. But that doesn't mean it's not real. It's because scientists are either to fucking lazy or they think it's not important. But yet it kinda is because for the world to be more accepting we first need people to do this kind of thing so we can teach it in our schools. Which crates an open mind about the different world we now live in. Which will cause us to have a more accepting future in our lives because our kids are being open minded. If we don't then we still live in a society where everyone doesn't accept everyone.
        Some who are feel unreal because of that. It makes them in a way depress because of those things. Because we people in this society can't bare to even express about a person who's not into sex. It just blow our mind. All because people don't want to understand it or do research about this.
I also have to point out that some, again not all, do say this. "That's just an excuse for ugly people." It probably doesn't bother people like it's bothering me right now. First off let me just say What the actual Fuck! Ugly? Did you just said that people say that people who say are asexual are ugly in a way?! EVERYONE IS BEATIFUL ON THE INSIDE AND THAT CAUES THEM TO BE BEATIFUL ON THE OUT SIDE! You basically have no rights to call anyone ugly and not just for asexual but for anyone! But on a more serious note. Who ever say that just think its ugly because he or she or them or it haven't heard it happen before and think it's fake and that's mostly from people who raise them and such. So if anyone do say that just understand that they probably don't understand what that is. And don't forget that you are beautiful in every way possible.
Next is really stupid in my option and that's nerds and sociopath. First off I don't honestly think being called a nerd is something you were born with. It's just people who are smart. Why is this part of the Asexual well they get called these things as well. Now I'm not going to talk about nerds because I personally see that as a complement more then an Insult but sociopath is what mostly caught my eye on this and by doing a little bit of research I see this is kind of dangers. I also realized this may be my brother as well. Now why do people think about this with Asexual people I don't honestly know. Maybe that's mostly happens with how they were raise. Again this is why we need change.
Nothing is wrong with you. Nothing is wrong on what you feel. You are not alone on this. You are smart and beautiful. You are as real as the solid ground that's holding you on this plant. To order to change the world for the best is to change others points in this. To accept others who are different weather it's race, religion, gender, or even sexuality. We simply can't change what we feel but we can change how people learn and see the world. If we do it correctly then we will have a better future tomorrow. And this is only the start of it. Point out the problem and make a solution kind a like Martian  Luther and Alexander Hamilton. And we'll do it together even if it takes one step at a time.
          I know it's sappy and stupid, but I wanted people happy with that last paragraph or weather feel less like shit about it. But I do actually mean it. I hope I didn't make anyone feel bad or waist there time and I hope you guys enjoy this. Have a great day or night.

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