why do we always fail to notice the good in people?
or this is also me shining light on what you think is right but is actually wrong and me actually giving positivity and support to some people.
uhh so i need to vent something out and idk where to do it so ill do it here :)
I have this uhh friend. This very problematic friend. She wanted to run away because her brother was a molester and well I can't blame her for that. Mind you that she is 14.
Except that she never ran away and went """offline""" for a week. I say this because she still opened my snaps and she doesn't have data.
Before when I first met 'her' she went as the pronouns he/him and everyone called him Tommy because that was what he went by. To this day, we still call him/her that and I was the only one who knew that he was actually a girl and her real name. (Not gunna expose)
A few months ago, he told my group of friends that he was 'trans'
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Whoops.
She and my best friend had a bit of a fight. My best friend (lets call him david) doesn't know that he's a she.
My best friend had a panic attack and deleted everyone (including me) on a game and Tommy got mad at him for that and posted online that he was faking his suicidalness (???), cancerous bitch and that he's a manipulative little whore. She even got several of his close friends to agree with her and got it shared a couple times, and it was circulating our little mutual/friends thing. I saw it shared a couple times and when I tried to click on it, they were (thankfully) deleted.
Tommy didn't delete her original post and I had something to say about it because I've been with david for a long time and not once have I seen him behave in such a manner or manipulate anyone.
Mind you that Tommy was the reason David left snapchat because she caused him a panic attack and she got mad at him for that too.
She made everyone worry about her and wish her luck on running away when she didn't even do it.
I was having a skype call with a few people from our group chat and what do you know they feel the same way. I don't know how to deal with her anymore and whenever she's on I decided just to go offline BUT SHE ON LIKE 24/7 NOW I CANT EVEN-
okay sunny you're losing your cool. (btw help me think of a new name ion think sunny is working)
I can't even have a normal conversation with the group without her bringing up her problems and stirring the group to take about herself. I think she's the manipulative one, not david. David is a super sweet guy once you get to know him but the first time meeting him, he could come off a bit strong and flirtatious.
I know for a fact that David is actually suicidal and not faking it. Me and him lost touch for a while but recently he reached out to me and found me. We had a conversation and I think (hope) that I'm making him feel better and stirring his mind of suicide since he's so stressed out and could pop at any moment.
I don't want to leave the group either bc I have some pretty awesome friends there that have stuck with me for a while and I don't want to drop her either bc that will just create a whole lot of drama since I don't think she wants to leave the group either.
I knew she was lying about him being manipulative and all because whenever those two were with each other, I was there too, unless they met up somewhere without me 😤😤 what a friendship
