My niece can't even speak yet but i think i'll start with her now. Don't ever accept the excuse "Boys will be Boys". Don't ever let him put his hands on you like that. If you see hate blazing in his eyes, don't you ever mistake it with love .Baby love won't hurt when it comes , you won't have to hide it under long sleeves in the summer and the only reason he should reach out his hand is touch yours.