It's all about your attitude. Some people complain there are thorns on roses, while others praise thorns for having roses among them.
-Unknown
The way you see things is important. When my grandpa had a heart attack (he's much better now, thanks to God!) he didn't thought of how he could die. He saw it as an opportunity to reunite his family. And so it was. The house was always about to pop with so many family and friends. Go grandpa!