How can I start this here rant off? I don't know...maybe by saying some guys (not counting me) are gonna thank me for this rant because from what I hear you two are doing, you are on the highway to hell! *sits* Come to find out you two are brothers, mm mm mm. One is confusing, the other is cheating. Jesus Christ, how do people MAKE IT AROUND HERE? *moonwalks in my boxers and socks* Let me start head on, because the both of these situations tick me off to the point where I want to peel two bananas and shove them in people's ears. It especially ticks me off because my best friends just so happen to be the females they are happening to. Someone said I should have an advice and a truth book so, ^.^ here you slap happy seals go! *dies*
1. Cheating on your girlfriend when taking a break
You know what? Definition of a break from a relationship: a short time away from each other, as to clear heads and think; not broken up, but really thinking things through. <<< Now what the hell, after reading that definition, makes you think that it's OKAY to sleep with someone and get them pregnant? No. No. No. No. No.!!!!! You don't do that!!! That is so man whorish and it's not even cool. That's cheating, creeping, fucking around, being around the block. *Shaggy voice* My girl caught me red handed, creepin with the girl next door! xD (A/N: I need to quit listening to that song.) Trust takes years and years to build, but one thing can ruin all of it in the blink of an eye. So nigga you better think twice before you think about taking it out your pants. Bruuhh, you're like school on Saturday, no class. *eye roll* Everyone knows the Kardashians and the Jenners sleep with EVERYONE in Hollywood. I won't be surprised if this dude makes a song called "I Hit It With Them Jenners First." Lawd, I don't even wanna think about the fact that there might be a sex tape. ._. Lort Jesus! Just know if I hear something bad about you again I'm going to have a huge read. Bruhh! *nae naes*
2. Being in love with two people
So after everyone found out that I, yes, the sexy one, came up with that cool quote about loving two people, they've wanted me to actually say how I felt about it. It really hits close to home for another one of my best friends, me as well, because it's happening to her, and it did happen to me.
"If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you would have never fallen in love with the second, & the second just might be the good one you let get away if you don't realize who he/she is to begin with or if you keep taking them on the emotional rollercoaster called confusion." (xD That's my extended version from Oprah)
^^^^ That quote is nothing but the truth because honestly, when you TRULY love someone, no one else can ever make you love another person, and nothing in this world can make you fall for another person. BUT, if you fall in love with another girl, then what does that mean? It means the love for the first person was probably like, "I love you, I just don't LOVE you." This is exactly what happened with me, my ex fiancee Lana and Winona. I spent about 8 months putting Winona through heart break and torture because I still wouldn't tell Lana how I wanted to be with Winona instead of her. Lana never understood me, she never was really truthful with me about how she felt about certain things, as Winona understood me oh so well and always made me happy.
Now it is a damn shame that it took me almost a year to tell her, because I think had I waited any longer, Winona would've been gone, and I wouldn't have my baby. I probably would've spent the rest of my life regretting not making the right choice. My advice to anyone with this type of situation is think long and hard about who you want. Don't end up regretting losing another person for keeping confusion around so long. *shrugs* I don't really know what else to say besides that. That's really all you have to do. The girl in the shadows is always right one from what I've seen, but then again whether or not you choose who you choose is completely up to the guy or girl in the situation.
- Johnny
