How To Seduce A Girl To Bed

A/N: This is taken from some site on the internet. Credit goes to the original author. But if it would help someone here, or if some would enjoy reading it, what the heck... So I posted it here. Enjoy! :))

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How to seduce a woman to bed before she even realizes it?

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Women aren’t difficult to read. Most guys just go wrong while trying to seduce a girl because they try too hard and blow their chances, say all the wrong things at the wrong time, or they make their intentions clear too early into the flirting stage.

If you want to know how to seduce a woman, the first thing you need to focus on is building the sexual chemistry. Don’t make it obvious that you’re trying to get her in bed. Make her wonder what’s on your mind.

And while she’s still wondering about your intentions, you can sneak past her defenses and make her want you and desire you sexually.

Just follow these 11 really simple moves, and you’ll surely be in a great position to seduce her and get her in bed.

Use these moves one step at a time, and as long as you play your cards right, she’d be in bed with you even if there are several other guys trying to get her attention at the same time!

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#1 Get close to her.

If you want to seduce a girl, the first thing you need to do is get to know her better. Don’t come on too strong or she’d feel threatened. Don't make her find you to be too easy to get, and she may get bored of you.

Talk to her and get to know her better. Text her now and then, and be warm and friendly. Don’t hit on her just yet, but don’t behave like a doormat either!

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#2 Be likeable.

This is a pretty important stage. And this is where you can actually tell if she’s warming up to you or shrinking away from you. As you talk to her now and then, try to get to know more about her and the things she likes.

Text her or talk to her frequently, and try to bond over something both of you find interesting. If the things you say seem to be working its magic, she’d start to enjoy your chats and your texts and keep in touch with you.

But if you come across as a bore, she may start to distance herself from you. She may avoid responding to your texts, or she may take hours to respond to you. And eventually, she may just get bored and avoid you completely. If you ever notice that she takes a while to get back to you, you really need to talk about something else to keep things interesting.

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#3 Get active at night.

The best way to get naughty and intimate with a girl is by texting her late at night, or by calling her up when she’s in bed. Start by texting late in the evening to begin with, and within a day or two, she may be comfortable enough to text you or speak with you late into the night even if she’s uncomfortable with the idea at first.

Keep the first couple of texting conversations clean, and flirt casually without making it obvious that you’re trying to get her to fall for you. Right now, all you need to do is get closer to her and make her flirt back with you. Don’t try to get into her pants already, or there’s a chance you may blow the whole thing off!

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#4 Live two lives.

This is where you need to confuse her. Each time you speak with her at night or text her, be flirty and naughty. But when you meet her during the day, don’t talk about the naughty texts at all, unless she talks about it *which means she really likes the flirty texts!.

Completely avoid talking about the texts when there are other friends around. But flirt with her when it’s just the both of you. By doing this, you’d make her convince herself that there’s already a secret passionate something brewing between the both of you, because no one else knows what’s going on but the both of you. Who doesn’t love a bit of fun, flirty secret drama in their life?

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#5 Don’t let her know you like her.

Many guys make this mistake here. They tell the girl they like her, or that they have feelings for her. Of course, you like her. She knows that already, doesn’t she? You text her all the time, both of you flirt all the time, and she can definitely feel the chemistry.

But even though she has a hint that you like her, she needs to hear it from you to confirm her doubts. Play it cool and don’t confess your feelings for her anytime now. Her excitement and curiosity would make her addicted to you. Revealing your affection for her will kill the suspense, which won’t help you in any way.

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#6 Get into her comfort zone.

When you get some alone time with her, sit closer to her and pretend like you didn’t notice how close you’re sitting. You’ve been flirting with her, now you need to get into her personal space to make her feel the sexual chemistry.

Touch her arms or her fingers while saying something, place your hands around her waist while sidestepping across her or walking past her, touch her while complimenting her, or hug her for just a second longer while saying goodbye.

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#7 Build the sexual tension.

By now, she’d feel the sexual tingle each time you touch her accidentally or otherwise. This is where you need to make her crave your touch. Let your hand linger on her back or on her arms as you touch her. Go really close and whisper something in her ear. Speak softly and play with her fingers when no one’s around. Build the sexual attraction right, and she’d turn into putty in your hands!

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#8 Play games.

If you’ve been flirting with her and feeling her up now and then while sitting next to each other, you’ve seduced her already and you’re in a great place to even take her to bed.

But if you want to play it safe and take it slow, continue to text her late at night. Play a few naughty texting games this time around, and initiate them casually. Before you know it, you’d be seducing her while having fun and playing games with her at the same time.

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#9 The dirty conversation.

You’ve been texting her, flirting with her and seducing her every single night. And if she’s been playing along all this while, this is where you talk dirty and make the big move. Initiate a dirty conversation over the phone. Start simple, and ask her a question that seems innocent, but would definitely lead to something dirty. And before you know it, both of you would be having phone sex with each other!

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#10 Ask her out.

Once you’ve had phone sex with her, you’ve seduced her already. Now all you need to do is make out with each other in person. Ask her out, or tell her you really want to meet her sometime. Make plans to meet up in your place or hers, and avoid going out on a date unless you’re trying to woo her or make her fall in love with you. This is where you need to choose whether you’re looking for a friends-with-benefits relationship or a romance.

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#11 Make out with her!

And when you finally do meet her, and she knows why you want to meet her, don’t jump on her right away just because both of you have had phone sex already.

You may just end up killing the mood, or she may tell you that she’s not feeling the connection, which would take you nowhere. Play it slow, warm up to the act and make sure she’s in the mood before you try to kiss her for the first time.

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If you use these 11 steps on how to seduce a woman and get her in bed, you’ll definitely be able to work your magic and seduce her. But remember, this works only if you get her interested in you first. So take it slow, watch her response, and make your move.