Me and Being Bisexual

How did I Know I was Bi?

This is a pretty long story so let's do this!

For all my life up until I was 12, I never knew a girl could be with a girl, a boy could be with a boy, a girl could 'become' a boy and vice versa. I never knew LGBTQ+ existed. I guess, where I grew up, it's not as accepted, even today. I only found out in 2014/15 when Gay Marriage was legalized in Ireland, I remember being so confused by this new information, I asked my mom what gay meant and she told me, and I never thought anything bad of it, I remember the first thing I said after my mom explained to me was

'Oh! That's cool! I'm happy for them!'

I never, didn't accept lgbt people. And after realizing that a girl could be with a girl I started thinking.

My apparent 'label' changed a lot bc I didn't understand and I wanted to quickly have something I could go by.

So I said I was gay, which after a bit I realized I was wrong, I then went by bi, which at the time also didn't suit me so I went back to saying I was straight. Then after awhile and thinking, I started going by aro-ace, and kept like that for a year. Then I realized how, I wanted to date people, I don't care about gender, I want to love someone and hug someone, and have cute moments with someone, so I started to recognize as bisexual again.

Bisexual means that you like both males and females.

My definition is that I like many genders, which is more like pansexual but, I was introduced to the word bisexual before the word pansexual was found and, I feel more comfortable being called bi and saying so.

Right now, I'm happily dating my gf and we've been dating for about 3 months now! WHOO!!

But a friend of mine literally asked my gf behind my back

"You know how Kellie is bi? Yeah is she dating you to experiment and see if she likes girls or?"

And

"So who's the dominant one?"

Like calm your fucking shit! First of all, I'm bisexual, I'm not experimenting! I'm not in a fucking lab and my gf is not a guinea pig! GOD FUCKIN-

*cough* Yeah....

I'm done now