Confessions

I'm writing this for myself and all those who suffered like me and used to blame other people or circumstances but never did they understand that everything that has happened, it happened for a reason and we ourself are culpable for that. All i've learned in these years is "We are responsible" "KARMA hits you back".Sometimes we think we are doing all good but the way we are doing it may not be appropriate or the right one.  
                                                             
I still remember those mournful nights I couldn't sleep I couldn't breathe those silent cries those heartaches, SCARY nights of my life. Everyone goes through these situations surely. But what was the reason behind that ahh it doesnot matter.Sometimes  the reason is not needed or its not important BUT just a memory , a scene , a flashback is enough to wake you up again to make you shiver AGAIN. And still if it can't you never suffered.We expect alot from people and this is so pathetic.EXPECTING from someone is nothing but hoaxing yourself.You can never satisfy people never ever!! If you are giving them roses only they'd see are the THORNS. If you're doing good to someone do it all with your heart without presuming anything in return.If they worth it they will definately do you with something good :)   

We are humans and we commit mistakes and there's nothing new in it. BUT how we are responsible for the results will startled you..We break trust of our very close ones for the sake of those we want to make close but actually they are not. How it would be possible to make someone our closest one while we are pushing away those who already are close and dear, who are supposed to be at the top of our priority list. But being humans we forget the difference, we expect good even we have done plenty of wrong :) If we hurt someone Hurt will come back to you too. Doing wrong to anyone will never come back in a good way or in a form of good results.  We are responsible for the nights came in our lives. We are responsible for those heartaches we went through because of those expectations. We are responsible for the hurt we got when someone broke our trust. Nothing happens to us without a reason.

The second aspect is may be it all happened just because GOD wants you to show something or give you a lesson..HE has chosen you to be the one on whome he wants to reveal HIS expedience.

There is a difference between FATE and  DESTINY. Likewise or mistakes are not our fate but what we will get in return must have connected to our destiny. We can't change our past nor we should worry about our future rather we are supposed to concentrate on our present. Never forget the mistakes you've made in your past but also do not Regret over them. And making good decisions in present will definately lead to a better future. And may be at the end it is all about INTENT.      
                                                    
People will be a part of our lives. They will stay around but never lose your INDIVIDUALITY.Learn to take your blames, learn to fight for yourself, learn to cope with problems. Know that what you sow you will reap the same. Do things without expecting anything in return, think about the concequenses before taking decisions. Listen to your INNERSELF it's giving you warning continuously. Follow your intuitions. And whatever you want to do, do with good intentions.SUFFERINGS polish you in ways and tears purify your heart.

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