Tips on teenagehood

Tip 2

I have this classmate that i used to be really close to..like she was literally one of my best friends... one of the first friend i made in middle school..
We had a major fight last year and during the fight...she uttered some really bad and hurtful things to me. I was hurt and decided that I was never going to forgive her for saying such things to me. My other close friend tried to bring us back together as friends but whenever i see her, i just remember everything and it just disgusts me and I ignore her even when she's comes to talk to me. She's apologized yes, but I will never forgive her for it.. I cried 2 whole days straight up because of her..and now she comes apologizing???
Like didn't she know or hear what she was telling me?? Using my weaknesses against me..I can't forgive her..she hurt me a lot and now she's feeling bad too..so we're both even...

Tip 2
Hi. Now my first advice is for you to calm down. What ever it is she may have said to you..I'm really sorry and totally understand...but life goes on after that. Im not trying to justify her actions but you said it yourself "we had a major fight last year.."..she was hurt and you were hurt at that time..she was mad and you were mad..she said things she wasn't supposed to say, but said because she was angry...and if I'm right, you did too..
People will always say hurtful, mean and unthinkable things to you...it an everyday life situation...everyone is faced with thus..but this should in fact make you tougher...make you develop some sort of thick skin...this criticisms and insults you get are what builds you, what hardens you to face the challenges of life. No ones life is like a bed of roses..no successful person is having it all good..there will always be hurts, there will always be discouragements..but you just have to stay strong and deal with the situation with maturity.
"...and decided that i was never going to forgive her" "I can't forgive her.."
Now this is where your wrong. Once again I understand that you were hurting at that moment, but for a year?? My goodness you're hurting yourself..not just emotionally but physically and psychologically too. Dont you feel sick keeping stuff like that in you? All the hate?
I absolutely do not approve of that action and advice you to give it up...give it all up...drop the hate...it'll just bring you down and its not a good thing at all. God wants you to keep the good things in your heart..not nurse bad things. It may be hard to let go but i strongly believe that with constant prayers to God for help, you will eventually.
Also..
"She apologized yes, but..."
No "buts" she even did the right thing, so what are you hold'n up the hate for? To gather it up and build a mansion for yourself with it?
Hell to the no! She did a very brave thing there. Not everyone owns up to their mistakes and I do commend her for that. Dont let the devil hold you back. Ask God for the grace to help you forgive her genuinly. The bible says that if your brother offends you, you must forgive him 77×7 times. Do you think Jesus didnt know what he was saying then? Im sure we have the same answer in mind. She apologized...and  I expect you to do the right thing too.

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