So often it is said that when you love another they must always be shown off or always be at constant contact with you. But is that love or obsession? Love is what does not die and if you must be at constant contact for it to stay alive then is it love? For if I was in Love I would not need to be around them all the time or speak to them all the time for me to feel secure. But if you feel like it's a need then that's insecurity within yourself. Why be in a love with chains when you can be in a love with a bird, one that flys away as it must and does what it has to do to survive but will still be admired by its lover. If we keep our lover in chains how will they ever grow, how will they ever learn and become better for their self and for you. They will not. That is why I am always going to love openly because keeping your lover on a chain will never let them grow and if you love them you will want them to grow. As well as they would want you to do so. So make yourself busy, grow on your own too, so that when you both meet again there is something to talk about, that is what I call true love. Loyalty at a distant and when you both re-meet nothing has changed.
