GET MOTIVATED

Get Motivated (Vol_2)

Now, let me take you through some pieces that might help you while on your way to success nation, they aren’t that much but too deep for the genius. These are:
STAY FOCUSED
You are never the only one that has been faced with challenges, all the great people and scholars also had critics, but they still believes in the beauty of their dreams, fully persuaded to stay focused, and determined for the realization of their dream. You can also be like them, and even do more than them because what lies behind and before you are tiny matters compared to what lies within you.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
Remember that quote by mark twain also, which says: “A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval”.
Approve yourself, accept your ways, be fervent and strong, be bold and courageous to make the decision you felt is the best for you.
Don’t rely on anyone, except the one that can make you happy; and there is no one ever on this earth that can make you happy except someone, and that someone is no one else but you.
Stephen Richard in one of his quotes said: “Before you can successfully make friends with others, first you have to become your own friend”. Think of this, convey the message it brings, and that’s the fact that you should love yourself before thinking of anyone else, when you truly love yourself, people will love you; and even if they don’t, it’s okay and perfectly fine. That shouldn’t sadden your moods, or discourage you from doing what you’ve been positively doing. Just take a glass and remember Richelle E. Goodrich’s quote that says: “you may be the only person left who believes in you, but it’s enough. It takes just one star to pierce a universe of darkness. Never give up”.
THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX
Start seeing things and people as those in the box, then you start thinking outside beyond the box. Although the box and what it entails might be your comfort zone, but always remember one of the quote of Comrade Banire Horlamilekan that “Everything you’ve ever wished for is just outside your comfort zone”. You need to grow out of it, be courageous, be bold and strong. Have different but positive unique mindset that your comfort zones is a place where you keep yourself in a self-illusion and nothing can grow there; but your potentiality can grow “ONLY” when you can think and grow out of that zone.
LEARN FROM YOUR FAILURE
Failure is one of the most certain agent of success, you have to be fully prepared to accept it when it shows up. Do things that no one ever want to try them, it is call taking risk. By doing that, you will at first “FAIL”; but that’s great.
The secret there is, that’s the only way to learn. Learning has to cost you something, because everything has it’s price tag, when you fail but learn something from your failure, you will definitely grow.
Things will happen to the worst, you will lose many things, and get many things, but you must at the end have one precious thing with you, which is “having you still”. Don’t lose yourself in the process, either of helping out a friend or supporting other people’s dreams.
BE GRATEFUL
Always remember “Grief helps you come to grips with the loss of a loved one. Guilt helps you make better moral decisions or bring you to apologize for a wrong doing. But in proper doses, these types of negative emotions are necessary and healthy.
So be happy, and learn to always be grateful. When you are grateful, it brings a lot.
Grateful soul focus on the happiness and abundance present in their lives, and this in turn attracts more abundance and joy towards them. Relating to the “Law Of Attraction” which says: “Like always attracts like, because positive mindset attracts positive goals”.
DON’T BE LIKE YOUR MENTOR
Wondering?
YES!!!
I don’t want to be like my mentor(s) or inspiration, because I believe I can do better and even more better, which has and should always be the prayer of every mentor (leaders, scholars & even parents). Don’t get me wrong, we will all need them to motivate and inspire us, but we should strive harder to make sure our potential are never like theirs. Because it is not enough if we just live life as it comes to us like a floating leaf in a pond. We’ve got to make use of those inner powers bestowed in us and soar like an eagle. After all, life gives us experiences for personal development; so let’s appreciate the lessons and be a learner.
MAKE A CHOICE
This so called life giving us experiences for personal development is a series of conflicts between the right way and the easy way each day as quoted by “Csaba Gabor-B”.
So the thing is, you head up straight when you make that choice, and make your “Day 1” the day you decide to turn your back to what’s comfortable, safe and calls common sense.
From there, it start getting tougher. But make sure that choice you’re making is what you really want, because the easy way will always be there to wash you away. Each step in life comes to a decision and take another.
CONQUER YOUR OTHER SELF
Now that you are on your way,  be prepared to fight an opponent you can’t see, but all you can feel among your heels, breathing down on your neck, and scaring you out of your decision.
Do you know whom that is???
That’s you!!! Always know that your fears, doubts and insecurity will always end up as an enemy within.
Remember what the C.E.O (Bosun Tijani) of the Co-creation hub (CcHUB) always says: that “Life is a royal battle between you and no one else but you”.
So, love yourself enough to gain the strength of fighting your other self. When you love yourself totally, I mean when you are bold enough to surrender, accept and committed to your real self, then everything else falls into line.