I was three when my parents got married. I'm convinced my mom married a sociopath. It might have something to do with him getting beaten as a child but he did it to me and my brothers (me mostly) so I don't feel bad for him. It's okay my parents use verbal abuse now. Why beat your child when you can cause years of physiological damage? I didn't know my dad was an alcoholic druggie until my freshman year and he went to rehab. My mom forced him because he threatened to slam my head in to a glass door. So ya, it was my fault. All of it.