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List of Kinks & Fetishes

A/N: Here is the list of kinks and fetishes that I will most likely use in these imagines. Note, I am getting these from reliable sources, not from the top of my head. stay thirsty a r m y 👅💦

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What defines a kink?

↪ "In short, a kink is something that A) turns us on, and is B) outside of the predetermined "norm," e.g. two cisgender, opposite-sex people engaging in missionary-style intercourse and the like. Kink could be anything from getting excited by someone wearing stockings or becoming nearly orgasmic when smelling a partner's sweat, to everything within the BDSM spectrum, such as bondage or sadomasochism to name just a couple possibilities. While no one sexual activity or inclination is the definition of "normal," because it is all normal, there's a certain societal belief about what sex is defined as for the average person. Kink lives literally anywhere outside that box.

How is a fetish different?

↪ "When someone has a fetish, they experience that attraction to the kinkier side of life but in a more exclusive way. Fetishes are differentiated by their demanding nature; when it's a fetish and not a kink, the person in question isn't going to be able to enjoy themselves without entertaining that specific desire. For some, fantasizing can be enough, and for others it might not satisfy. As we know, everybody is different! When someone has a fetish, it is something integral to that person's sexuality, whereas a kink is an enjoyable indulgence-something delightful and delicious, but not absolutely necessary for their sexual fulfillment. Kinks are like salt: they simply add to the flavor. Fetishes are like the food itself: without them, there is no meal.

To make it easier to understand and also to generalize greatly, we could create a gradient from "Vanilla" to "Kink" to "Fetish." Basically, all of the things we do that are within that predetermined "norm" lie on the vanilla side of the spectrum, where things that lie outside that box that we enjoy would be in the middle near the "kink" category, and finally, the things that we cannot sexually do without would be placed around "fetish.""

Kinks and fetish list:

↪ Age Play: a form of role play in which one or both partners pretend to be (and get off on being) an age other than their own. A common example is "daddy dominant/baby girl."

↪ Bondage: is a form of restraint. It’s a sex act within the BDSM umbrella in which one partner is bound. Some people enjoy being tied up; some enjoy tying up their partner; and others like both. Someone who enjoys both the dominant and submissive role is referred to as a “switch.” Bondage uses kinky toys such as handcuffs or rope. You can tie someone up to a bed frame or, if your bed frame isn’t kink-compatible, you could start by simply binding the arms together.

↪ Bottom: a role referring to the person receiving sensation. One who receives sensation of action.

↪ Cockolding: “Traditionally, cuckolding is when a heterosexual couple agrees to both explore the turn-on of the female sleeping with other men and humiliate her male partner about the fact that she’s sleeping with someone else,” says sex educator Tina Horn . . . The male partner need not be present—perhaps he gets off on his wife having unprotected sex with someone else . . . If you’re turned on by the idea of your partner sleeping with others, yet don’t necessarily want to go through the emotional tax and health risk of them literally having unprotected sex with others, you can explore this kink through dirty talk.

↪ Dominance: is one half of the D/S (dominance and submission) equation. It falls within the web of BDSM, which itself is an acronym for “bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.” The dominant partner derives sexual pleasure from taking control as part of the consensual power exchange that is D/S play. The submissive partner allows their dominant partner to, well, dominate them (some of this stuff is rather self-explanatory).