When someone talk to you about their problems your mind will automatically thinks on how to deal with it even if its not your business it will think how to comfort that person who opened up with you.
Maybe some will advise about the problem, some will just listen and tell "It's okay, I'm here", some will say "come on you'll get over that. Just pray" but me? Ako lahat yan but sometimes ang hirap iapply sa sarili.
There is one time nagkayayaan mag inom kaming magkakatrabaho and while we are drinking liqours one of my colleague tell me that he is confused about his decision. I asked him about what?
The conversion goes like this
"Bibreak ko na girlfriend ko" he said out of nowhere
"Bakit?" I asked
"Tang ina lagi akong inaaway nakakasawa, tinanong ko lang sya bakit and tagal nya mag online. Nagalit agad? Ano yun? Sobrang seloso tang ina.
As a trying hard wanna be love guru I told him " That's part of relationship bro. Fighting is one of the elements you have to deal with to make the relationship better. Yung mga pagaaway na yan pag nalagpasan nyo yan mas titibay yung relasyon nyo. Don't give up easily malay mo may mens lang kaya masungit" I laughed
"Ang hirap kasi bro before ok naman kami Ang sweet nya ngayon sobrang toxic na bro we fight in just a simple matter I love her but I can't take it any longer"
In my mind I'm laughing with myself 'mukang gago naman usapan namin' pero dahil love guru wanna be ako nag isip ako ng pang comfort para narin may topic boring eh.
"Bro sabi mo dati sweet nya It means you got her in her best. Wag kang susuko just because she changed baka di mo alam ikaw rin pala nag bago na. Just hold on bro. Respect her, Understand her, tayo yung lalaki we shouldn't be the one who give up on them kasi bro in the first place tayo nangligaw, nanahimik yang mga yan tapos susukuan mo lang. That's absurd bro. You got her in her best, You should stay with her more in her worse because this is the time that she needs somebody to lean on and it must be you. Don't be selfish" I told him with sympathetic tone
Nasa isip ko 'where the hell did I got those line' I'm so proud of myself lol
And tumigil ang mundo... Bang hindi nya alam ang sasabihin nya.
"Do you love her?" I asked
"I do so much" he replied
"Then f*cking hold on" while laughing
"But I'm tired"
And there we stopped talking about that topic and starts to talked with the other colleagues.
The night goes by and we all end up drunk and sober. Umuwi na kami sa kanikanilang bahay.
Habang naglalakad ako ang dami kong naiisip dahil sa napag usapan namin
Yung mga sermon ko.
Yung mga advise ko.
Lahat yun di ko nagawa when I was in the same situation. How ironic.
