Fighting For Life

"I Can Do This"

"I can do this."

A phrase that is oftenly used by us, but is commonly used in a wrong way. We use this to boost our courage and pluck all the negative forces out of our body to face the things that are making us so anxious. Sometimes this phrase can be really helpful, but sometimes it is not. How is it possible?

It is simply because we are not using the heart we have properly. Our heart is meant to love, but we are so naive when it comes to such subject. All we know is that love is care for others, etc, etc. We always use our heart to love others in full content until nothing is left for us. I am not saying that we shouldn't love others, but all I am saying is do not ever forget to give yourself some love.

Loving yourself is the key to being positive. You know, even I myself had forgotten for a very long time to leave at least a little love to myself because giving love to others is really heart flattering and signifies that we believe to them. That is why I had forgotten the pleasure of giving or showing myself love. I promise you, when you start giving yourself some love once again a lot of things will dawn on you and decision making won't thunder a maelstrom.

What I am saying is that without any love to yourself, you do not believe that you can do it; and if you do not believe that you can do it, you cannot stay positive. How can you stay positive if even yourself do not believe to what you are doing or saying? How can a positive phrase become positive if your mind is the one making you say it? Our mind only comforts us, but our heart assures us. Remember that. So better say "I can do this" with all of your heart to assure yourself that you can really do it rather than saying it through your mind which gives only comfort.

But some people do not know this phrase. Why? It is because it terrifies them. They hate the shivering feeling whenever they spew it. Which explains their negative sides being far more wider than their positive sides.

One last thing to remember is feeling comfortable on what you are saying won't usually last, but feeling assured to what you are saying or doing usually does last.