Inferring Life

Love and Hate

My question is, is it possible to love someone but hate them at the same time? Of course it is. There's different ways, however, that this can take affect. For example, your siblings, you love them because they're family and you grow to love your family but sometimes they may do something that you hate that gets you really mad. Family can be forced love and forced hate, because no matter what they'll always be your blood, whether you have a special bond or not is different, but "blood runs thicker than water." On the other hand, there's relationships with friends or with a significant other. You have this deep love for them for who they are and this deep love for your intimate connection with your significant other. You're in love with the idea of you together: as the word "us" is put into place; referred to as two or more people in a joined preposition. They can have so many qualities that you love and can't get enough of, but also some qualities that you hate but can't do anything about. Additionally, you can love the way they act around you alone or with a certain group of people but hate the way they act with you and other people around or a different group of people. Love and hate are both such unbelievably strong words and a lot of people like to use them with purpose, not just to throw them around like they're just an everyday word that means nothing to them. Because if you use the word "love" too much, especially in the phrase "I love you", it can become meaningless very quickly because if you use it to the points t where it's something you say out of habit and not out of meaning, it loses its sole definition and just becomes another meaningless word. When I say "I love you" to someone, it is not something I say out of habit and it is not something I say to everyone or just anyone. I don't say it so I can hear it said back to me. I say it so the person knows my pure feelings.