The thing with kids is we all know girls love to see us with a baby. For some reason it just melts a girls heart to see us all cute with a baby or any little kid to be honest. Yes yes, we do use this method to pick up chicks. However every guy wants to have a kid, don't let your boyfriend lie to you. Every guy wants to have a boy that can be his little buddy and also a man to back you up against mommy. I do wants kids, in fact I love kids. However, all men are scared of babies.
Yes ladies we are scared of those diapers full of stink bombs. It isn't because we don't want to help out it is the fact that those diapers can really make a guy pass out or throw up. True story, my uncle used to gag all the time when changing my cousins diaper and my aunt used to laugh at him for it. Well one day he ended up throwing up on my aunt while he was changing the diaper and well at least she doesn't make fun of him anymore.
The fear most guys have is always having a daughter. Don't get me wrong nothing is better then having a baby girl and being her first lover and her hero. However ladies, as a father we would fear that our little girl would meet a boy. Oh yes a horrible guy. Now as a guy I understand why we worry. Guys can be pigs, say a lot of dirty things and some only want one thing. We worry for that very first heartbreak and to see our daughters tears knowing we can't protect our kids from everything.
Besides the pros and cons of having or wanting a baby it is worth is. Seeing something you created to grow up. To watch them take their first steps and hear them call you Dad or Mom for the first time. To watch them thrive at what they do and to find someone they love and watch them start their own family. Kids are amazing and great and the world would be nothing without them. Yes we may use them to pick up chicks, but when we have our own children we will love and protect them for as long as we live.
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RandomPeople are told to believe what they are told. We think we may know the truth to everything but we really don't. So what do people really think? Why do we act the way we do about things?