♡ Kissing Tips ♡

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For beginners, making out may be a nerve-racking game, but you should always remember to keep your jaw and kips relaxed. No one wants to kiss a tense face or get jabbed with a sharp tongue. Seriously. A sharp tongue can be painful for your partner, so loosen it up. Align your lips with your partners and slowly set a rhythm, make sure you and your partner are kissing to the same beat and intensity, so to speak. It’s awkward and uncomfortable when both parties are doing their own separate thing, so get on the same page. You can lock lips, kiss softly, or go for the full-on French. 

Don’t go full make-out right away. Build the tension. Look into your partner’s eyes. Wait to dive in. The same goes for French kissing. Let it build naturally. Then close your eyes. Keep those babies closed! Start by kissing with closed lips, and then slowly part them. As your mouth is gradually opening, allow your tongue to feel your partner’s lips between yours. Your partner may do the same thing. Let the tips of your tongues touch each other. The more you go on and the more intense your make-out session becomes, open your mouth wider and allow your tongue to go deeper. Explore their mouth with your tongue.

Let them do the same to you. Suck on their tongue, suck on their lips, just don’t let your teeth get in the way. If you’re not ready for a full French, still go for an open mouth to some degree because you’re going to want some lubrication. Dry mouth is not fun. And for the love of god, don’t use your teeth except for nibbling and light biting. If you’re going for a bite, do so softly and go for their bottom lip. Do not devour their face. Do not bite into them. This is not an outtake from 50 Shades of Grey. Use your front teeth to pull on their lip, and then let it go. You can use the same method with sucking on their lips as well. 

Switch up techniques. It’s always nice to come up for air with a few short pecks on your partner’s lips or face. Anyone can appreciate a good forehead or nose kiss, if you’re comfortable enough with them. Even the ears are an erogenous zone for many. Taking a break to kiss their neck or collarbones can be very intimate and range from light kisses to full-on sucking - which may very well result in hickeys. Just be careful not to bite if you intend to give hickeys. 

On the same note, if you’ve found something that works, keep going at it. There’s no use switching things up when both parties are enjoying themselves as is. Listen to your body and do what feels natural. 

Let your hands move around. Your hands can wander to their face (holding their face along the jawline) for a more passionate and intimate kiss. Touching their hair or bum can be sexy, and depending on where you want this make-out session to go, it can be appropriate for your hands to wander to their crotch. However, touching your partner’s arms, chest, or stomach can set them off in a less forward but equally sensuous way. If all else fails, the hips/shoulders are always a natural place to put your hands.

As for body language, if you are standing you can press your pelvis up against your partners. This is one of the many ways you can pull your partner into you, which should also be in conjunction with an increase in intensity. When you back off, do so with your kissing style as well. Teasing during a make-out session is great, and can be simple, (like pausing to look into your partner’s eyes) or playful (like pulling back when they try to kiss you and giving them a mischievous smile.) If you’re comfortable, moaning while making out can be a huge turn-on for your partner. 

It’s hard to really describe good kissing. It’s the kind of thing that will happen with enough practice and chemistry, but hopefully I provided enough detail for you! Take it slow. Make your mouths, faces, and bodies fit together. Most importantly, have fun!