Advice from the Unqualified

Suicidal

Question: I want to tell my mom I am suicidal so I can get help, but I'm really scared of what she'll think of me or how she will react. I'm tired of feeling sad everyday and I really want help. Any advice to boost my confidence?

You are so strong and so magnificently and wonderfully brave. I am so glad that you want to get help, because I can guarantee that this world is even more beautiful with you in it.

Now, for the advice.

First, remember that your mom probably loves you a whole lot, and she will probably really appreciate you telling her that you feel this way instead of hiding it. She will probably even appreciate and respect you even more if you tell her! She'll think that you're really mature for letting her know instead of keeping it a secret.

But, if you want confidence, then I would recommend that you try to do the things you enjoy. Read your favorite book/fanfic, talk to friends, listen to music, etc. remember that you are strong. Keep telling yourself that, because it's 100% true.

You could even look up motivational posts on tumblr. I know it sounds ridiculous lol, but if I ever feel sad then I read them and I feel a heck of a lot better. Just remember that you are important.

I personally listen to Ed Sheeran when I'm sad. I just think he's so great, so it makes me feel better to hear him sing. But if you're suicidal then DONT listen to Even My Dad Does Sometimes. Or maybe you should? I don't know. Mixed feelings.

5sos is also good to listen to, because most of their songs are really upbeat and fun!! Just make sure that you do the things that make you happy.

I hope this helped!! I'm here if you need to talk.

Stay strong lovely!

-c