friends - 21.1.19

Those who keep you company

Isn't it normal that we're somehow choosy about the people we wish to stick around with? I'm pretty sure each and every one of us tend to spend our time with the ones we're comfortable most being near to. Isn't it true? You'd definitely stick around with the ones you feel okay when you're just being yourself.

And it's also normal for some meddlesome & unwanted people to get involved in your life because that's one of the things that is uncontrollable. To the extent that you get sick and tired of certain people around you who make you feel uneasy, the ones who would always belittle your hard work, or even the ones who like to make fun of your enthusiasm about something, don't you feel like something has to be done?

Well listen up, leave those people and cherish the ones who are there for you through rain or shine. If they don't really contribute a huge impact in your life, make a decision and choose to ignore, (without becoming an ignorant freak). Turns out, The capability to ignore is one of the skills we need to have to go through the things we 'wish' we won't face.

As a matter of fact, choose your friends wisely. Actually, you can do anything you want to, without giving a damn about what other people think. But, make sure that you do it as long as you know what you're doing at the moment is promising & beneficial in your eyes. Why am I saying this, again? Well because in the end, you know, people will eventually judge you with anything you do. So you decide whether to do the right thing or the wrong thing. Just be smart in balancing both things and just do you.