Love will always hurt you no matter what. Even giving your own child too much affection can change them tragically. Love and affection don't help anything especially if it is for a person. People say you know you love someone when you feel really pleasant in the inside you feel like your horrendous life has changed for the better.........but those are complete shams. This is once again attraction or a one-sided love, you will get hurt really severely if you don't learn how to control your emotions. Sometimes people start to blame the significant other because they feel like they haven't done anything wrong but to be fair, it was your choice to fall in love with a completely wretched cheater.
Life is a mess when love is connected, it feels like a void has been created for you to fall into. No matter how hard you try you cannot break out, you get sucked in, into the emptiness which is found in your head. Life feels lonely without you 'love'. Again love can kill the most innocents of flowers. Love is like, every time your 'lover' comes close to you, the flower in your heart starts to deteriorate. It is no longer pretty, it is covered with a black tar-like substance.
If there is love, there is no peace. You won't live in peace with your lover if all you do is fight every day. Even the most famous people have problems with their relationships. They constantly bicker over something very insignificant. You can live a life without falling in love with someone, you don't need to constantly remind the world that you have someone by you at all times.
