The Life of A Sasaeng

intro

Before you read

Don't hate on me before even reading the book, because that shows you didn't read it.

Everyone misunderstand the term,"Sasaeng"

The first thing to come to mind when you hear sasaeng is probably,

"Crazy stalker obsessive bitch. They should go to hell for stalking *idol name*"

Was I correct? Yes, unfortunately I was.

But you don't understand the REAL meaning.

A lot of sasaengs are crazy and obsessive over let's say, BTS for example.

But a majority is also not.

I am in the majority that isn't.

The correct term for my group of sasaengs would be,"Kind, privacy giving sasaengs."

I do not spread the bad info I get, I just tell my sasaeng friends and that's that.

Most of us are really kind, and we care about BTS.

We don't talk to each other like,

"Hey, give me BTS' number, puta."

"Alright. Here, culo."

No no, it mostly goes like this.

"Hello~! Would you mind exchanging BTS' phone number for an unseen photo/video~?💕"

"Of course~! <3"

*exchanges*

"Thank you!"

"You too <3"

You see? But sometimes..

I come in contact with the obsessive kinds of sasaengs..

And the convos go more like THIS...

"Hey! Is it true?!"

"Huh?"

"Is it true you have BTS TAEHYUNG AND SUGA phone number?!"

"..? Well yeah..."

"OH MY GOD SKSKSK can you give it please I really need to talk to my oppa and tell him I love him.."

"Uhm...."

I usually don't agree though, because those kinds of sasaengs shouldn't have the members phone numbers, no matter how hard they want to talk o their oppa.

I just don't think they'll use it good.

They'll most likely spam their favorite idol until getting a response or making them feel uncomfortable or uneasy.

I've only said 'hi' to Taehyung in text, and when he only read the message and didn't answer I stopped messaging.

I didn't even think about calling because he already saw the message, and if he really wanted a fan texting him he would've answered.

It's very simple,

Here is a map even I as a sasaeng understand:

Fans               |          Idol

You see that line?

That shows there is a line between the fans and their idol.

You should not cross that line.

If you do, it can be very bad.

One of my sasaeng friends wouldn't stop spamming Jungkook until he answered her call and he wasn't very happy,

I told her to just stop and she agreed that's for the best.