An Overseas 'Moms Diary

burning desire

      I'm literal story teller of my own life ,    you  know  why?  while reminisce some of happenings here abroad.

      I smiled out of silly thought and wondered as I was told ,  I can't keep secrets in terms of my own life story. 

      And  I  do  visualize  myself  as clumsy one.

P.S
   ( by consulting the inner sentiment to analyse yourself  ,  it help.  Really!  )

PART ;
     ( five )

      
      Living  in  Hong Kong  or  in any countries  who  hire domestic helper the situation are same. 

      Jessica had a small talked with Indonesian's ,  African and Sri Lankan and they worked here ,  as well.

       Talking with them ,   it really hard to communicate because of language barriers so normally in the end.  They didn't understand each other.  But ,  it doesn't mean they are not capable to work abroad.

      So Jessica admired their humble face and sweet smile.

      They may not looks smart with determination in their heart.  Lead them ,  in less trouble and be more responsible  in  their  action.   And Jessica genuinely respect them ,   in all that as their ace where they capable of. 

      A skill to able to speak Cantonese and to understand it well. 

      In deep thought Jessica had seen and encountered some of them ,  with their ability proves they can keep pace to other.  

      Every employer in favorly towards them ,   learning cantonese as their advantage and confident to face the responsibility confidently. 

      Specially when you were nursing the elderly who need extra care ,  and if you win their trust by talking ,  telling some interesting stories ,  ' You did a great job!

      However ,   they were naive and too loyal.  At the very least  as  Jessica  didn't  dare  discriminate them ,  where they coward and quietly stays and too submissive living behind their freedom when it comes to their employer. 

      Too bad ,  sometimes Jessica lived as same way  unlike to other pinay helper. 

      Who eagerly fearless to express their free mind without regrets ,  argued and stubbornly fighter as it flows in their blood as a Filipino.

      The unwanted source of being weak comes to every overseas when they were alone or unattended. 

       Hesitation such a drag that give headache everytime if something came up.  It seems bribe that could hold back your faith.  So do not spoil the chance to threw away the poison link in your head that could absorb negative feeling and somehow it became dictator to control your lives.

      No wonder.   No matter how further their patient could endure just to survive ,  until the very end of every contract. 

     Unfortunately ,   you cannot just prevent the complicated atmosphere of   employer   and   helper.   Even though ,   both   side   has   their   own rights to defend itself in case one of them who dare violate the law. 

      Still ,  not only Jessica who believe  the key length of their work depends  to every employer consideration. 

       Are   you  familiar  in     ' Dream catcher?    it  featured   in   Kdrama ,  ' The Heirs  ,  cast by Lee Min-ho and Park Shin-hye.  Its says a traditionally used  as talisman or to protect people from bad dream and nightmare.