Possible Answers

Balance

Being too bad is evil.....being too good is not good either.
Being too relaxed is sometimes laziness but being too hardworking is unhealthy.
Feeling unbothered lacks care.....worrying too much is stress.
Putting responsibilities first is dull and boring.....having too much fun causes problems.
Too much love for one's self is selfish.....too much love for others is stupidity.
Being too obedient is being a robot.....being too stuborn is a bad image.
Too talkative is annoying.....too silent is boring.
Being too ambitious hurts people.....lack of ambition means you have no dream.
Oversharing sometimes mean your a braggy douchebag......sharing few means your not trusted and your playing safe.
Too smart sometimes means your weird...... if your too dumb, you don't have a place in the society.
Being too "hands-on" in a group job means you're bossy......being an "underdog" would mean you lack initiative.
Oversharing your knowledge means you're a "Mr. Know-it-all".........not sharing anything means your a brainless imbecile.
Being successful at all times doesn't have thrill........failing too much makes you worthless and suicidal.
Being too open is dangerous.....too much trust issues is unhealthy.
Having too many friends means some of them are fake......having less means you lack social life.
Being too jolly means your a "show-off".......too shy means your a "kill-joy" and you're not fun at parties.

Fate is playful. I guess the key is to be "Neutral".