I've mention things about perfection in the past, and it's true I considere most things as perfect; specially because I believe there is always something in that person, living thing or object that makes it unique and special in its own way. But there is also more to all of this, perfection is in the eye of the observer as a wise person once said.
It's really hard to define what we believe as "perfect" or beautiful since media these days has been implanting these specific and different ideas of what a perfect body, personality or way of living is on a person. But deep within we all have something different, something mind blowing that makes us who we are.
A big percentage of who we are is based on our past and the path in life that we were put in.
In this chapter I would not have a straight out definition of what beauty is because there is actually none. As kids we have been put this idea of what we should be doing and liking by society. And as women, most of us are being bought pink and really sparkling clothes even before we are born. So all of these ideas of who we should be and look like have been almost forcefully put into our brains. And without even thinking at the age of 5 we are attracted by pink toys, kitchen utensils, cleaning toy supplies and "mommy" stuff. As girls we don't grow up knowing how to build something or learning the different parts of a vehicle or a house, we are raised knowing the small basic things like cooking. Over all, what I want to say is that many of our personal decisions as a person have been taken away by society and replaced with idea of a perfect kid or woman.
As I said perfection is in the eyes of the observer and it's on you to actual define what it is. Start by complementing yourself and try not to think about what society thinks is perfect of you, think independently. Then, start by seeing beauty on everything around you, don't focus on what you think is wrong or not "perfect" think about all the physical non-physical and extravagant things on that person, object or environment, see the beauty on everything.
I dare you to think outside the box♥️
With love,
The author
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