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Dear wattpaders

Every day when I read through the news...there is always something about suicide...its happening amongst us and it makes me feel sad...mostly because I know how those people feel yeah?

But what are we doing to help these people...I appreciate writers that have written stuff about depression in their books....since I would like to believe that depression is a major cause of suicide...

To you...reading this now...thinking about suicide...I know how you feel...its damn horrible...but suicide is never the answer...I know you have heard this a lot of times.... But its really not the answer.... Those bad things that people say about you does not define you...you define who you are...love yourself before anyone else you've got yourself...choose to show up for you self...choose yourself unapologetically without guilt...you are you are...don't let anybody make you believe you are nothing and cannot be nothing....don't make you believe you are ugly or worthless
...after all beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...be proud of who you are and believe yourself when you say I can make it...if you doubt me check success stories... You don't have to be the most intelligent or most beautiful to be successful...you have to be you...and to you whose past haunts you...the past is past...don't live in the gloom of yesterday but live in the sunshine and hope tomorrow will be better because it will ...if you make it...it does not matter what you have done or what has happened to you...your future defines you and not your past....everybody has their past...but the way you deal with it makes it better...give yourself the permission to hope, love and care..it's all about you....please when ever you think of suicide remember that you are a unique creation...no one will be like you and no one will ever be...the world needs a person like you...don't miss the opportunity of making the world a better place by killing yourself...and if you were jilted by a friend or someone you loved left you...fuck them
..they missed an opportunity to be with an amazing person and be part of their life ....trust me its not worth it...perseverance is the key...no matter how many times you try and fail...keep trying...all these might sound hard to you...but if you make efforts consciously it would work...take out time to relax...write, listen to music...dance...its your life b...live it well...and if you ever need someone to talk to...am right here...I might not be The strongest person but am willing to help others even in my weakness...

Finally... Even if you are not planning on suicide...please be a  sunshine in someone's dark day...please say nice words...smile at someone..make them feel better...I know we are all humans...we have our off times ....but please don't take it out on someone else without knowing their internal battles...the fact that you are beautiful and have the hour glass shape does not mean everyone else should have it...we were all created differently to suite different purposes...if you really want everyone to be the same...buy a pack of sardine and look at it
..do not joke about people's mistakes... Please it is very wrong....we are all humans and we make mistakes....be there for other people.... And to those that try to make themselves feel better by putting down others
...please stop...everyone is unique I keep on saying...learn to appreciate yourself for who you are....not every one will be intelligent or beautiful...but make the best of what you have...

And now I dare you writers to talk about suicide and discourage who ever is reading your book from committing suicide

ElliotEPillars
ZainabShaibu
Agnesomalia
muhcrazy_coldstone
Iyanuoluwa-Temi
toyosibby
Malinda14
fikki7
Liber_Tee
Jaquinee
Sixfeetoffineapple
SanRoxi
naija_talentedwriter
zesty98
dettykim
suwawrites
Daniel_lexy
Tohria
Coffee_donuts
Cinmisola
simzypee
crankychris
AshiLoveUgbe
OG-Dara
Peace_omo_stories
chiomachris

And please tag other writers...you might never know who is reading....I have done my part and I am still doing my part...please reach out to someone and save a live
Thank you
Sophira