My mom and my dad married before I was born , then a while later my mum was pregnant with me. My mum only married because it was her only option or she'd have to be homeless with already 2 daughters . Her relationship with this abusive man was toxic and dangerous for her and her daughters.
The 2 daughters weren't very fond of this man and they didn't like being around him. One of the 2 daughters was locked in her room till she peed her self , and they were constantly yelled at and traumatised and still don't like to talk about him to this day.
After a few years when I was 4 or 5 my mum and dad divorced the visits became more and more raw and me even talking over the phone to him was a raw thing to do. After a while he just blocked my hole family , on social media and texting and ect . He blocked us out of his life for 7 years .
To this day I'm in contact with my biological father and I'll be meeting him soon in a week or two . But the things I've heard have made me very aware that he may not have changed but I don't know yet. He might have changed and he might be a better man and I'm hoping that he is .
Honestly sometimes I wish my step father was my real father, I mean he was there when I was born and he let my single mother and 3 daughters move in with him till they found a home . Till they found out that there home was with him . My step dad is the best dad I could ever ask for and when I talk about him I don't ever say or mention that he's my step dad. To me he's my real father because he's the one who looked after me not the biological dad even though he was supposed to he didn't. And I'm great full he didn't cause I got a better dad in the presses.
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The ghosts perspective
Non-FictionMy mother and father divorced when I was 4 the last contact I got with my father was when I was 6. The man was a short tempered , abusive man and he was the one behind some of my scars I still have to this day . My family and I have moved around a...
