Coffee With Ardi

~ A note from an ArDian ~

Pranam!

We have a trend in Wattpad!

Who is reason for Global Warming? Ardians

Who is reason for Corona Virus?Ardians

Who is reason for disaster of world? Ardians

Okay, Truth always needs to face jealousy and hatred, and yeah propaganda cannot be made without opposing Truth. People may create fake accounts, spam message in incognito to claim Ardians for mishap, and yeah, also they would advertise for attention and  fake to seek sympathy, people would also message about you on person at back. Let them! A strong community with proofs and evidence, will always go through ridicule.

Arjun and Draupadi has occupied an immortal space in Vyasa's creation, that can never be erased. It was for Arjun's hand, Drupada brought Draupadi to the world, and the destined lovers, were to be shared by fate. But, their love never diminished. Draupadi put her duty prior to passion, accepted her fate of her past's mistaken wish, and stayed as binding force and motivation for the Pandavas, treated them equally and loved them all and the five-brothers loved her back, without a doubt. However, her passion had occupied the universe of her heart, her love for Arjun, which she adorned proudly, when she expressed about her displeasure of her position in his heart, when Arjuna brought Subhadra. When she  expressed, the world is lifeless, without Arjuna, in presence of others. When she is said throughout the epic, that she looks onto Arjuna for protection, first! She related her winning by Arjuna as Krishna winning Rukmini's heart. She expressed her insecurities of woman being around him. The Swayamvara unabrigdgedly, is compared with union of many Gods and Godesses, When Vyasa calls her as his wife, as soon as he places Swayamvara garland around her neck. She never complained of her misfortune, she took it as a challenged, approached her fate, positively with out a regret, but flourished her love and passion, served her husbands unconditionally, stabilised her relationship, but the undercurrent of her passion, flowed undettered and unaffected, subtly expressed again and again. And in the end, she was blamed for partiality that she never showed, penaltised for her perfect duty. Love and passion is not a sin, and she is balmed for loving him more. How cruel for her, Is love a liability?

Arjuna throughout the epic engages us as the man, who is romantic, drawing a class apart of his time, despite being the greatest warrior. After, he takes away Draupadi's heart, he strides to win Uloopi's heart, and he esteemed her, loved her back in return of her unrivalled sacrifices, he is allured by Chitrangada, and loved her even on condition of leaving his son behind. He was attracted by Subhadra, he abducted her, placed her close to his heart, always, included her in his excursions. Neverthless, there was one woman in his heart, who would rule his soul, the foremost, the princess born for him. In the age polygamy was common, he made a room to apologise her, when he brought a new bride, he never needed to apologize, but he flaunted his priority. He took her to pleasure trips, included her in his closest friend's circle, brought all the jewels of heaven to her. Apart from Vikarna and Vidura, who took her side, about the statement Draupadi, wisely evoked, it was Arjuna, who defended her statement subtly and shrewdly, dumbfolding the vicious-gang. When purity of Draupadi was questioned, he removed the topic with a single statement, unchaste man's words would not sully his pure woman. In heavens, he lamented about her to Chitrasen, and waited for Dushashan's death. He expressed his grief of sharing her on his outburst on 17th day. More than his words, his grief of Draupadi's pangs was always expressed through Krishna's voice. He chose to be an eunuch, for a year, to stay and protect her and to hide his archer scars. He loved her unparalleledly, giving her the utmost priority of his soulmate which was always true, as he was born from the tejas of Purandara(Indra from Mahabharata era to now and contd.) incorporating Nara's soul(MahaVishnu Ansh. FYI, Arjuna was not one of the previous Indra, but was Born from Indra's energy,Indra's other half, as reincarnation of Lord Nara), and Draupadi was Swarga Shri's ansh as well as ansh of Shri, Kamalavati (MahaLakshmi ansh. From BORI Annals.) thus making them the eternal consort of all Yugas.

ArDians, we are a proud admirers of these two, who's love remained, unsullied despite of all forbidden hurdles. There are people who get jealous of everything about them. Their love, their children, and yeah, the huge groups cherishing their love. Well, they can do that as long as we have proofs. Some exists, who don't understand the term FANFICTION, and blame us for writing ArDi fanfics. In fanfictions, people just can't tolerate, AU's of Arjun Draupadi, being paired, Arjun following, Ekapatni Vrata, Arjuna being first-born, Arjuna becoming Emperor(He was the only one to sit in the throne beside of Indra, in the whole of mortals. Why doesn't he deserve it in FANFICTION). Do people not note, the key word, DISCLAIMER AND FANFICTION. But the same people don't have issues with one of the other-husband(not Arjun) of Draupadi, alone being paired with her or with one of the other wife of Arjun, alone being paired with him. None of us, have an issue nor worries, because everyone are titled to creative liscence. But seems like all of them have to target ArDi, because Popularity invoke jealousy. Many people has to get into ArDi topic for advertising, should ridicule existence of Pragati(Well, there's no evidence of her in authentic source of MB. Neither, there was anyone called Draupadi's daughter. She is in folklores and in heart of ArDians ) Becuase without raging and insulting a group, they can't put them forth their ideologies. I have been silent and all of you have been, enduring it silently and we must be proud of how we bore all disgusting abuses and hatred, without minding them.

Foremost reason of this post, includes another important announcement. Our community and we were blamed, for no fault of ours. But if we have a mistake, we should have the courage to embrace it and rectify them all. If we don't it will thin the gap of difference between Ardi haters and us, and also give them a genuine reason to blame us, away from their illogical propagandas.

There's a huge hype of hatred on Subhadra. And specifically, there are part of our group, who are abusing her. What mistake did she ever do? Was Arjun falling for her, her mistake? Was serving Draupadi like her own sister, her mistake? No, in the whole epic, she comes out to be one of the selfless diva, charming, enduring and perseverance. She was the one who raised Uppapandavas as her own son, loved Draupadi and Arjun, inturn was apple of their eyes. How could it be sane, to show her dividing them? Infact, it was she who catalyses reunion of Arjun-Draupadi, by going as cow-herd woman on Arjun's request.

She sacrificed her son, for the re-establishment of Dharma. And also remained back alone in Hastinapur, looking after Parikshit and guided him in right direction, for the fame of Bharata, to be immortalised!

So kindly, try to avoid making her anatoganist, making her a third-angle vile, in stories, being part of our immortal ArDians community. It's a request for ArDi admirers on the whole, not to insult such a magnamous woman, by throwing her into a poor-light. Draupadi's aura can never be dimmed by Subhadra. Both have the magic of their own.

ON A STRICTER NOTE, VILLANISING SUBHADRA IS FORBIDDEN IN THE DISCUSSIONS OF GROUP, Atleast by our community, atleast here. Precautions are better than resolving, if such issues comes out in future.

Thank You!

Celebrating Glories of Arjun-Draupadi's immortal love, forever!

With Regards,
Madhumitha.