Well I am being a 100% honest what I am gonna say
So the way I gonna express my feelings about love is to characterize them in parts:
LOVE: So my thoughts or feelings about love is kinda like love is an amazing feeling to feel, you have to be clear and careful when love comes in your life it can be in any form self love, parent love, friend love, sibling love and the love from your lover. For being in love you don't have to follow some conditions or something like that it just happens with no warning and when it happens there is no stop it's just goes on. So I am saying it in my point of view I don't know about others the thing I recognized is that people choose there partner for the matter of there looks umm well I don't get what beauty has to do with love. Love is a feeling from heart so being beautiful or handsome don't mean that you're partner is perfect. well no one is prefect everyone have there flaws all we need is a good eye to notice there inner beauty of there heart. For me the concept of love is pure it's meant to be the true feelings between two people. Love is a very complicated feeling to understand it. I have seen so many people claiming that love each other so much and made so many promises to stick together no matter what but like after 3 months or more they loose interest in each other the feeling back then was not love it was liking or some kind of attraction. so to make you understand what is the difference between love and liking? Some of you might think it's just the same in love you have more feelings for the person but in liking a person is a little less no my dear friend there is a difference. So take an example what would you do when you see a beautiful flower in front of you? If you liked the beautiful flower you will pluck it . But if you loved the flower you will protect it so that the beautiful flower stay beautiful the way it is. Simple right. So make sure that when you have feelings for the person is like or love. So moving on to next concept.
HEART BREAK: As I expressed my thoughts upon love yet not every ending is a happy ending right there might be times where sad endings do happen. Well I admit I did went through heart break to be honest those days were the worst days of my life I couldn't control myself I was just slipping off into the darkness.I was the one of most brightest kid as far I can remember no matter what challenges came in my life I was ready to fight. No matter what all the things pulled me down I would get back on my feet well it doesn't mean that it was not easy for a 10 year old fight through all alone. I never complained about anything. As time passed by I didn't know how to interact with other people cause all those years.I was all alone. Fighting through, time passes really fast ya know I don't remember how but I started to gain confidence in myself made friends I was super happy that I have some buddies to talk to about how I feel. What all I have been through i didn't realise fast but most of them were fakers just wanted to use me for there own good but yet I met some loyal ones also in way I am really glad they are still with me even when I showed them my flaws they didn't have any problem with me sorry I got distracted yeah so continuing so my first heart break was when I was in my 9th I didn't knew how to handle it. My friends did there best to help me but when a heart break happens you can't just stop feeling hurt ryt...?. Well as I said in the beginning I will be honest I am being honest I became suicidal I was stupid back then I really laugh when I think about it now. so yeah it was too late for me handle myself. Well if I put in words it would be like I was lost in this darkness where I couldn't see anything just darkness every where I would go. I felt really numb just like a life-less body, I was breaking apart but yet I would be faking that I am happy. By the end I got a hold of myself it was late but yet I managed to survive through it even what happened the heart break was worst no worries I managed cause as I said I am strong. For those who are going trough a heart break it's totally fine okay bae. Everything will be alright. Stay strong, trust me you gonna laugh when you will get through it, this is just a phase of life, everyone have to see in one way or the another okay... well my personal advice to get trough heart break surround yourself with positive people or things. YOU CAN DO IT!!.
REJECTION: Okayyyyyyy sooooo this not that bad like heart break you can be alright and your mind would be on its right place. So how many of you went through rejection?. Well not gonna lie I also went through rejection I am glad it didn't end in bad terms. it was alright for me well to those who know what the word rejection is but don't know what it feels well hun I got ya well basically it feels like you are so confused what to do next weather to keep the friendship or just act it never existed well that's the hard part ya know to ignore the fact that there was time that, that person meant everything to you but now you have to act like you don't know them or act like you never had any kind of feelings for them.. hard ryt. I am telling ya love is really complicated to understand. Well at end of day all you should keep in your mind is that it's okay I am glad that I confessed my feelings before it was too late so later then you wont feel guilty about it. Remember one thing this is really important before loving anyone in your life first learn to love and appreciate yourself then go for others okay.
FRIENDZONE: okay now my dear friend you are in a danger zone this ain't no friendly zone you gotta make a run for it. Rejection is much better then the frndzone cause you have to stick around with them even when you said about your feelings to them. Cause you are there "FRIEND" ya know what I mean they are playing around with you be brave and leave them they don't deserve someone like you and as I said before love yourself first then think about others okay (I am saying this in positive attitude i ain't no mean person okay).
So I finished my thoughts but I wanna share some words which I have in my heart this is for those who like to play with people's feelings please stop it this ain't no joke if you can't love them or respect them please explain them the reason why you can't be with them and those who are in a hurry to be in love. stop right there you deserve someone better than them. Be patient good things will come to you just wait.
So thank you for reading this far .well this were just thoughts which I wanted to share. hope you guys enjoyed the content. it's my first time ever posting something on watt pad. I know there might be so many grammatic errors sorry about it
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