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"사랑의 방법."
     ~ the ways of love .

"💌" ;; third person pov

love is a tricky game. for some, easy. looking for a friend, a lover, a soulmate... can come naturally to some, and difficult to others. some people look for someone to fill the empty space in their bed, others to fill the empty space in their heart. love is either desired for happiness, support, lust, money, authority, or even to ensure themselves with confidence. people don't always find what they thought they'd find with love. love is what you make of it. love is what you fight for, you hope for, you live for.

it can be experienced in many ways. commonly, a flutter in the heart, a feeling of adrenaline, or uncontrollable excitement, a heavy weight on the eyelashes, causing you to slightly batter your lashes, a jolt of energy, a parting of the lips, and a sudden stopping of breathing. the person often feels warm inside and in comfort.

the effects of love on the brain. the main three hormones released: oxytocin, dopamine, and estrogen or testosterone. dopamine, known as the "happy or pleasure hormone" is released when they feel happy. like when meeting someone you love or feel an attraction to, this is released causing oxytocin to occur, also called "the love hormone," because it's a certain type of happy hormone that you get when falling in love. and finally, estrogen and testosterone, the female and male sex hormones.

changes resulted from love. one may become so enveloped by love, it soon develops as an obsession that one craves and needs. it becomes as addiction and they can't escape it. and when ends don't meet, a split happens, leaving one deep in their feelings, not escaping them, entangled, falling farther and farther into a dark hole, swallowing that one that let their feelings consume themself. this isn't the case for everyone, usually people find true happiness with those they trust. this happiness can be the key to everything to their life. love can be a healing process. it's what they needed to solve their problems. whether these problems be a problem they find within themselves or a problem they couldn't have fixed on their own.

everyone defines love in different ways.

edited : oct.15.19~oct.15.19
words : 380