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Don'ts in a Relationship

Disclaimer> This doesn't apply to everyone, feel free to add comments about things you would add and possible things you agree and disagree with :). Be nice though

I don't want to offend anyone, this writing is purely based on my opinion about relationships and shit. I am not an expert on relationships.

Let's get straight to the point, don't cheat. Whether we were on a break for a couple of days, you were wasted, sad, or somehow wound up being dared. I don't give a fuck. No excuses. Don't cheat, Periodt :/

Don't lie. We would rather you tell us that you ditched us for your friends than you lying about having the flu. Plus, we always find out. We have our ways.

Don't ignore our feelings. We aren't your punching bag to talk to only when you feel like it. We have feelings too and we need to talk about them as well.

Don't hurt me. I don't care if you're furious with me for my bitchy attitude. I would rather you ignore me until you've cooled off than telling me how fucking messed up in the head I am.

Don't degrade me. It bothers me when you insult me about the way I talk or mock my actions. It hurts. And no it is not considered "teasing". I'm your girlfriend, not your bro.

Don't be unsupportive. Support me in everything I do. Your words mean the world to me. Even if it's something your not fond of, just support me because you love me.

Don't treat me as an option. If you're dating me for fun, forget it. If your dating me and don't see any future with me, forget it. I'm done with guys that only date me for "fun". I refuse to be the only one that's committed in the relationship, so get your shit together or we aren't happening.

Don't treat me like a joke. Treat me seriously. I have opinions and they matter.

Don't break promises. If you promise to love me. If you promise to be there for me. If you promise to support me. If you promise to be by my side when I need you most. Fulfill these. Don't break promises.

Don't go out with my girlfriends. It bothers me. It just does. If I were hanging with your guy friends you wouldn't like it.

Don't hug my girlfriends. Don't touch them, period. I don't care if you are friends with them, just don't touch them. Unless you don't mind your guy friends touching me, then be my guest :)

Don't lead me on. If we've just started dating, hell if we've been together for 2 years. Don't lead me on. If you are falling out of love or just feel like you aren't as invested in the relationship as I am, drop the act. Don't lead me on.

Don't tell me I look good when I don't. Just don't. I know when I look like shit, so I can tell when your fucking around and complimenting my uggs and sweatpants for fashion choice.

Don't talk about sports. "Disclaimer this doesn't apply to all girls" Sports are boring and I could give less of a shit about Ranaldo or whoever the fuck Messi is.

Don't call me babe/baby/sweetheart. If we've just met then don't be a suck-up. Only call me those names when things start to happen. Don't be calling me babe or baby after I've known you for an hour.

Don't send me a hundred heart emojis. It's cringy. This mainly applies to middle school. But it's not cute nor is it attractive. It's straight-up childish. If we texted at night and you say night with a hundred hearts, it's the end of the rode for me buddy.

Don't be awkward. If you're trying to ask me out, have a bit of confidence before doing so. I'll most likely turn you down if I sense that you aren't confident in yourself.

Don't ask me big things over text. Whether you're asking me out or inviting me to hang with your friends. Not over text. You're such a coward if you do so. Face to face always makes things 10x better and shows me you're a confident sunava bitch :).

All in all, be bold and own it. Shoot your shot, but do it right.