Self Betrayal

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Every one was entitled for themselves. Sometimes we think of out of the box contents. All we want is to live free from any judgments and accusations. All we want is acceptance and respect.
The real fact that we live in this wonderful world created by the Lord was awesome, but to live with every person which has mental issues and problems in their lives.. "makes me sick!" And tired..

I had this friend she's amazing. She's doing well, with her family and even with her job..Then one day she said " Am I too fat?" And  I was like " What? Why are you asking?" Then she responded " Our boss tells me that I need to diet because I was too fat".. I just told her " Do it if it makes you happy; but if it's not in your will don't do it.. " she just say " Yeah your right"..
The next morning she looks tired and stressed. I asked her" What happened?" She said " I wanted to loose weight! But I feel so pressured by this lady whom always comparing me and feels like forcing me to loose weight!". I really felt bad that time, she's struggling with her own thoughts. I just said " Why would you care to do something that really don't want to do?" Then she responded " I wanted to loose weight, Because I don't want everyone to say that I'm too fat.. that I'm looking like a NANNY.. that I can't even dress up nice because I'm too fat!" She was screaming and crying.. It was just a word that was thrown to her , but this word hits her badly which pushes her to betray herself. I just tell her " If you want to be fit do it in a healthy way. Loose weight just because you want to be healthy ; and not because someone demands you to do it.

Lesson:
Never listen to the judgement of others.  Love yourself. Never betray your own self. You can be eager to do something for change, but do it for your self and not because someone tells you to do it.

RakieThoughts signing off....

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