This came too me after a seen a video about someone talking about it I wish I could quote him but I forgot.let me explain this is a first love theory not a love theory (ill do that a different day).i'll start off being saying your first love might not be the very first person u go out with could be second,third,forth,fifth,ect.Its the person that you truly without a doubt love.Now the 1st love effect has it's up and downs.first example this is commons do will mostly likely happen to you if your not me ........ Billy first love is Jane.Jane first love is Billy. They spend night and day talk doing most couple things.In this example couple are mostly likely to stay in the as some people say "honeymoon stage". Example one I say is an healthy way the 1st love effect works. Example two Ellen's first love is Hector.Hector knows Ellen loves him so he use that to his advantage.Blind due to the first love effect nothing Ellen's friends can do or say will make her realize Hector using her (BTW this example happen to me n my friend n boy I tell you getting them to listen to reason when the effect happen like this it almost impossible to get them to realize what really happening). This effect is unhealthy cause Ellen will do anything for Hector even tho Hector couldn't careless about her.When people are in this type of effect they will do or say anything to try to convince there self that it's real love n I mean anything....... Now the third effect I have witness (n by wittness sadly I mean have been through....) is the third effect. I'm going to add onto exam two for three so Zavio- I mean el phonzo..... His 1st love is Ellen he tries to do everything n I mean everything to make her realize that Hector not the right one blinded by the 1st love effect he didn't want her to be with Hector.He also didn't want her to be with himself. He wanted her to be with whoever made her happy truly happy even tho he the only one who made her truly happy( prob giving out to much dammit now she who shall be nameless might know it's her 😳) .So he makes her happy even though her first love is Hector. And it slowly kills him inside till he's finally dead emotionally that is which is not health. Ok last but not least example 4 el phonzo flirt with a lot of gurls.Too many for his own good.....He feels the love from all the girls he goes out with and flirts with.he feels true love from all of them. Which causes him to Die figurative,mentally,emotally,imaginetoly,he dies in ways which was even events yet.but still he walks around like nothing wrongs desperately indeed of love but getting it in all the wrong ways.This is indeed not healthy. And that all I can think of so yeah.
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That's my theory for the day please excuse my grammar today's it's like 12:30 I wanted to write but don't feel like checking over it so I just skimmed... Have any other type of the 1st love theory?You think I don't know what I'm talking about?You have anxiety problems too and can't sleep at night?Or just need someone too talk to? Message me anytime. Well still don't know how I should end these thing or how to add a book cover pic but I'll learn in do time so ummm..... Peace I guess,stay chill,and ummm always remember knowing is half the battle ( rescue heros quote ok I'm just rambling now Peace
