When u lose something. U cope. U dont deny it. U accept. U dont replace dat something, instead u learn to be open to new things. U learn.
When i was young it seemed as if destiny is the only thing that took place. Now that im older i learned that we were also given the freedom of choice. If everything is really planned out in concrete cement, why do we need to try harder or practice for everything to turn better? If everything is just destined to be, people will just sit in the corner to wait for something to happen coz in their minds with or without action, destiny will take in place.
My point is, destiny is true. But dont believe that it is the only thing that plays out in life. We always have a choice. We may not like our choice, but we always have a choice.
So act and believe that by doing better, everything will soon be better. :)
God is so wise to give us both destiny and free will.
