Spending time together is important .do you know why ? Because you now more about them and you have fun whith them and you can explore . Family will be there for you nomader what even if you do something they aren't prad whith they will still love you that's what family is .They have your back no matter what even when they die they r looking at you and thanking about you just no once they're gone just now they still love you they miss you so so much they are thanking about you 20-47 they miss you so much . Just now there in a better place now god is with them every day I promis so just now if you abandon them and don't try to spend all of what you can once there gone you wold wish you were there I have a split up family me and my mom is in a Washington Seattle and my dad and bothers and sisters r in Oklahoma and I wish I could be with them and my mom at the same time I Mis them so much I miss every thang about them I try to hold in all the sad ness but it just makes me have an attitude because I try to hold it all in it's so hard and I now it's even harder on adopted people because they don't now there family and it's hard to give up a kid but it's for a good resen . And I'm only 11 my parents have been separated for 2 almost 3 years and I miss them so much my brother don't even look the same anymore it was hard to go the first time but easier the Second time . But they are happy now my mom is so much Happyer and my dad is too and I'm happy for them but it's hard and I now it's hard for my mom to go form my brother and it's hard for my dad to lose me and it's not fair to me and my brother my babby sister was a babby when mom and dad separated and she don't even know him that good she was only 1 when we left but she's 3 now she's came on A lot she has grown a lot I take out my anger on them and I try to stop but I can't I'm crying ritting this it's hard I missing so much time of my dad and brother it's so hard but they are so much happy and even now it's hard I try to keep it together