So much responsibilities so much orders "you have to" "you need to" "you must to" i hate this, i am to young for this i can't take it anymore i need a guidance, i don't need other person orders me what should i do and what shouldn't. I know what's like to be mature but this shit cames to fast, i will be at 20 in two months from now, this is kind of little bit hard but i think i can handle it i just need some one to help me.
For me to be mature is :
When you learn to let go
When you understand everyone is right in their own prospective
When you accept people as they are
When you stop trying to change others, instead focus on changing your self
When you stop attaching "happiness" to material things
When you are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and able to let go of your wants
When you are at peace with your self
When you stop comparing with others
When you are in wrong apologize, don't just stop talking to them
When you start learning from your mistakes and not doing them again
maturity is the ability to respond to the environment being aware of the correct time and location to behave and knowing when to act, according to the circumstances and the culture of the society one lives in.
Maturity it doesn't relate to age with anything, it's not necessarily to be an adult to be mature, there are some adults now acts like they're like teenagers at age of 16 or 17 their mind are so small they son't use it at all, or they don't know how to use it.
Maturity its self is and age, brain's age, the age of your thinking and your ideas, it's like your thinking becomes older than your real age.
Maturity is knowing what's good for you and the people around you not just yourself, which means trying to not be selfish.
Maturity improves the ability to make good decisions. And with wise choices comes more stability in your life overall. Gone is the flurry of bad relationships, iffy decisions, wild nights out and horrible jobs. As you settle down, life becomes that much more stable and, consequently, easier to handle.
Maturity, in general, is many things. Maturity in a love relationship is everything! ... It is knowing that you grow into a love relationship. It doesn't happen all at once. Mature love partners seek new ways to help each other grow.
