A twist in the tale

How it all started

From decades and centuries ( well not really ) I was trying ever so hard to make my gf understand that bdsm doesn't mean violence and ruthlessness it all means .... Well we all know better , but it's tough but finally I got it though , I understood that she was dominant only she was bit shy to express herself . I knew this point for we are three years together and we both know and trust each other very well .
  First of all , my plan was to somewhat symbolize myself smaller than her , when we used to chat or wherever possible I used to try this , like for example - when she used to say that she is queen I used to portray myself as a slave or soldier instead of king , these small small things were working she one day ," I love to be a dominant " I used to become happy but I knew I still wanted more .
Secondly , I used to tell her small small example that how women dominated works are always perfect ( actually they are ) .
And lastly the most risky one for which I got a bad scolding from her , I would go straight to the point and say about bdsm .... and yes I would also say sorry for any fault whether it's mine or not ....and so it began , she started to dominate me physically , how .....