03 solitude

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by Yena_Shades
by Yena_Shades
                                    
                                              
I know what you think about it.
                          Even if it's hard to believe, but without solitude love will not stay long by your side.
                          Love needs to rest, so that it can journey through heavens and reveal itself in other forms.

                          You may not believe me, but without solitude, no plant or animal can survive, no soil can remain productive, no child can learn about life, no artist can create, no work can grow and be transformed.
                          Solitude is not the absence of Love, it's complement.
                          Solitude is not the absence of company, but the moment when your soul is free to speak to you and help you decide what to do with your life.
                          It tooked me a lot to know, to realise it. Blessed are those who don't fear solitude, who are not afraid of their one company, who are not desperately looking for something to do, something to judge.
                          How can you know yourself not being alone, and if you don't, you'll begin to fear the void.
                          But the void doesn't exist. A vast world lies hidden in your soul, waiting to be discovered. There it is, with all its strength intact. But it is so new and so powerful that you're afraid to acknowledge its existence.
                          The act of discovering who you are will force you to accept that you can go further than you think. And that frightens you. Best not to take the risk. You can always say : " I didn't do what I should have done because they wouldn't let me ".
                          That feels more comfortable. Safer. And, at the same time, it's tantamount to renouncing your own life.
                           Sometimes you'll say : " i'am just not allowed to accomplish something ". And here let me tell you that you're in woe for a long time.
                          Because with each day that passes, you'll sink deeper into the well of your own limitations, and the time will come when you'll lack the strength to climb out and rediscover the bright light shinning in through the opening above your head. 
                          The only truth you have to tell yourself in that special moment is " i'am not brave enought".
                          Because you know that it's not someone else's fault. And sooner or later, you'll find the necessary faith to comfort solitude with mysteries, and here, everything will have a different taste. 
                          In solitude, you'll discover the love that might otherwise have arrived unnoticed. In solitude you'll understand and respect the love that left you.
                          In solitude, you'll be able to decide whether it is worth asking that lost love to come back or if you should simply let it go and set off along a new path.
                          In solitude, you'll learn that saying 'No' does not always show a lack of generosity and that saying 'Yes' is not always a virtue.
                          And if you feel oppressed with solitude, it's important to remember that at life's most significant moments we are always alone.
                          From the second you've been born to your last day on earth : you'll be alone at that most important moment of your existence.
                          So if Love is the divine condition, Solitude is the human condition. And for those who understand the miracle of life, those two states peacefully coexist.