Teach Me OO Wise One“Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.” Proverbs 5: 19
Let me introduce you to my concept of lovemaking. The desire to engage in sexual activities is a natural instinct, one which we all start to experience upon reaching puberty. This might not be the case for everyone due to the fact that a lot of us became curious at a younger age due to our exposure to porn sites, X rated movies and those songs by some of our dancehall artistes. For me this began at a very early age, when I accidentally heard some weird noises coming from my neighbour's house and went to check it out. (lol)
Anyone can make love, BUT creating a love-making experience that takes you beyond orgasm is one lacked by many couples. We all need to understand that doing the same thing repeatedly becomes monotonous and will not give your partner that SOUL SATISFYING EXPERIENCE that he or she is looking for. We need to step out of the box, find new and creative ways to make our significant others happy sexually. Men should stop relying on only the physical things during sex and start focusing on the mental things too. One thing I have learnt is that, WHEN YOU ARE ABLE TO STIMULATE YOUR PARTNER MENTALLY, SHE WILL BE MORE OPEN TO YOU PHYSICALLY. If you are able to stimulate her mentally, trust me when I say you will have her fruit wet, without even touching her. When she sees you, all she will be thinking about is SEX.
One thing I learnt from my parents, is 'whenever you are doing something, you do it to the best of your ability, because you never know if you will ever get the chance to do it again,' and I took that proverb and implemented it in my sex life. Every time I am doing it, I try to come up with creative ways to make her enjoy it, trying not to make this sex experience the same as the last one. Being creative is the key to a happy sex life, your aim should not always be ORGASM, but it should be PLEASURE. You could make her climax 3 times and she didn’t enjoy the sex, but aim for pleasure and you will never fall short of her body’s expectations. When a guy is able to stimulate a girl's mind mentally he will awaken behaviors in her she didn’t even know she possessed. I was able to stimulate this girl once and it took time, (remember good things are never rushed, they take time) we were dating for about 6 months, and one day she did something that even I wasn’t expecting. I was at work at school (Utech) and I saw like 15 missed calls from her and 9 messages saying, “I need you to come here now, because I am not feeling well and I need to go to the hospital.” Being the very caring guy I am, I ran from my work place without saying a thing to my boss, and rushed to her dorm. When I reached her room, I pushed open the door and there I saw her standing at her bed with her back turned towards me, I said, “***** what’s wrong?” She turned around with her head down and a smile on her face, she whispered, “I NEED SOME SEX.” Guys let me tell you, this was one of the GREATEST turn on ever, I couldn’t even be mad at her for doing that, because she wanted something and she found a creative way in which to ask for it, AND I TOTALLY LOVED IT, and I did give her what she desired.
Building sexual tension slowly for a peak experience leads to great sex. You have different ways in which you can build sexual tension. For instance, sending a naughty text to her while she's at work is a great way to do this. Telling her the things you want to do to her, or the things you would do to her if she was at home with you will have her vagina going “Tweck Tweck” (jumping) at work. This will have her watching the clock, anticipating the end of the work day so she can jump in a cab and head over to your place.
I have this one friend who wanted to do something special for her boyfriend for their anniversary, and I gave her 10 things from which she could choose, all of them being sexual. Before I list them I must say the things you do leading up to sex can determine it's outcome, whether it will be OK, GREAT, MIND BLOWING or a DISASTER
1.For the first week in her anniversary month, I gave her the
Underwear Challenge. She would choose a day not to wear any underwear, and if he guessed the correct day he would have sex only on that day for the entire week. (and trust me ladies this builds sexual tension for the entire week, especially if you're teasing him). Because when he gets it, he will go all out, it would be his way of punishing her for keeping it from him so long.
2. Blind Fold Challenge. This is where you would both find a separate room in the house, put the blind fold on, then the task would be to find each other with the blind folds on. Wherever you meet in the house is where you should have sex, while still wearing the blind fold.
3. The Curtain Challenge. This one is a bit risky, but remember, the riskier the sex, the more exciting it is…. This is where the girl would be wearing a dress with no panty on, or even a blouse only. She will lean over at the window, with the curtains drawn, so the persons passing by can only see her and not the guy. The guy would be behind her pumping her while she smiles and waves at everyone that passes by. Trust me this one takes the cake, and it is really exciting, especially when you hear her calling the name of the neighbour or someone you know and they don’t have a clue as to what is going on. LolTO BE CONTINUED…
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Teach Me Ooo Wise One
RomanceThis book is not like your normal books you would read on a day to day basis, this book is this just a collection of some oy my ideas on things we can do to improve our sex life thus improving our intimate relationship with our partner. Because whet...