The Story of a Real-Life Yandere

I'm an anime fan, and anything that is anime, I wish it was real. When I first discovered the word yandere, I got interested and loved to have a yandere boyfriend, but as I grew up, today I saw the news and read other people's cases of real-life Yandere. At first, I didn't believe but doing research, I have no word to say. I got so interested in Yanderes that I research about them, study them in anime shows, manga, and of course, the yandere simulator. I even study about their disorder, what is there a reason, etc., but after telling my dad about yandere, he told me a story about his friend hanging out with a real-life yandere. 

* The names you will see are not their original * 

My mom and dad already got married and came to North Carolina to start a new life, and by living in NC, my dad made a new friend named Mike. Mike help my dad to find a house or an apartment for my parents since they were new. Mike and my dads were amazing pals and Mike also introduce his friends to my dad. Mike told to my dad that he was married and had a daughter and wife but he got a divorce and instead her daughter stay with his father. My dad has been friends with him for years until one of Mike's friends made the biggest mistake to introduce a new person in his life. 

One of Mike's best friends introduced him to a girl named Abby, Mike was the nicest guy in the group, he didn't mind if there was a girl in his group. Mike and Abby became great friends until he started to date with her and became more than friends; they became boyfriend and girlfriend and they became the happiest couples until his life change. 

In 2002, Mike noticed that his great pals were leaving him, one by one until they were gone except my dad. Mike thought that he did something awful but my dad know that Mike is the most innocent, shy, kind, and cool guy and there's no way his friends will see him as a bad friend, my dad so curious and confuse, but he didn't care, as long he still Mike best pal. 

When I was 2 or 3, Mike, Mike's daughter, and Abby have been together and both of them love me for how I was, but I didn't know, about that time of year Abby was acting like a yandere. 

When my dad was in the store he bumps into one of Mike's old group friends, of course, my dad has anger issues and he didn't bother to ask why he left Mike. What Mike's friend said shock my dad with his wide mouth open. He said, that one day, Abby was threatening them and Mike friends saying:

Abby: If you get on my way or dare to be with him, I promise I will kill you and not just you but your family. 

That's the reason why they left Mike. Of course, my dad said;

My Dad: Then why you didn't go to the police then, they'll handle everything. 

Mike Friend: Cause she also threat them if they even go to the police.

And of course, my dad had to do something about it, but instead of going to the police ( nice try dad ) he went to Mike to tell him everything, but Mike didn't believe him. My dad wasn't careful enough to know that Abby was listening to everything, which causes huge trouble. Now my mom and dad were being threatened by her saying the same thing as what Mike friends experience, but my parents were brave to comfort her and say, "We're not scared of you, we can go straight to the police." but she something that shook my parents.

(Okay, before I tell you what she said, I just want everyone to know that my parents came to America illegally and I and my brother are born in American. Okay, let's continue) 

Abby said this:

Abby: Well, if you go to the police, then I'll go to ICE and send you back where you came from.

My parents were scared so my parents didn't do anything. 

One day, Mike call or went to my dad's apartment and he was freaking scared. Mike told my dad that Abby send Mike's daughter to Mike's family away from him and Mike got so freaking mad that he told Abby to get out and never come back. But this is where Abby's true colors came out. This what they say;

Abby: If you don't love me, then I'll kill myself!

Mike: Go ahead, I don't care if you die. You ruin my life by threatening my best pals and my family!

Abby: Oh, I will kill myself, but I'll kill you first, then I kill myself. *She begins to back up to get a knife* You're mine, and no one will separate us, not your daughter, friends, family, nor your best friend (my dad) 

For that moment, Mike was so scared that he had begged her not to kill him or herself. My dad confesses to Mike to go to the police, but Mike said, that she will believe her more since she was smart. Mike didn't want my dad to get hurt so for protecting my dad, my mom, and me, Mike had to stay away from us and never be friends with one but stay with Abby. 

7 years past

When I was 9 or 10, me and my parents, we were in Wal-Mart to go around and do nothing but walk around when my dad bump Mike. It was the most shocking and happy to see my dad and Mike seeing each other again. I didn't remember him since I was 2 or 3 years and Mike was surprised by how big I was and shock again how I had a brother. My dad wanted to know how he is and since I wasn't paying attention to the conversation, I had my dad tell me today what did Mike was saying. 

(Before I tell y'all what Mike said, I do remember that Mike wanted to cry when we saw him Wal-Mart)

This is what my dad told me that Mike told my mom and da, Mike said, 

Ever since he lost everyone, he has been suffering from Abby keeping him always and everywhere besides her. Abby doesn't let him go meet his daughter, nor his family. He never got married, but they did have s.e.x. Months past and they had a baby boy. Abby doesn't allow him to text anyone with his phone or keep his phone beside him. He's not even allowed to have to Facebook anything that is social media. There were sometimes he was trying to escape but she always treated him. He has been doing this until he gave up and just live with it. He did say, that she cook anything he wanted, she protects and cares for him, she loves him so much, and she never cheated or go anywhere without him. 

Hearing this story heartbroken me. And there's also another person we bump into. When I was 14, I and my family went again to Wal-Mart and going to the movies section, we bump Mike's daughter. I didn't know her until my mom explained who she was. Of course, she was married and had children. I remember telling us that she lives happy but she did tell us that when the wedding came, her father, Mike, was there for her. She also told us that, she went to visit her father just to see him, but as she saw her father, Abby came out and treated her. She said that happened years ago, before her wedding. After telling us everything, we took a picture, say goodbye and never saw her again.

Now in 2020, my dad knows that Abby and Mike move to another state for some reason, but as a daughter, I wanted to help Mike to be free, but we don't know in what state they are, he has no social media, no phone, nothing.

Hearing this story of my dad's friend was the most heartbroken I have ever heard. Lots of people including myself dream to have a yandere girl or boy, but we need to open our eyes and see the reality. Yes, they will love you so much, they will comfort you, they will never cheat you, they will cook for you, etc., but they're mentally ill. Love is supposed to be patient and kind, the love of Jesus Christ. 

" Love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud": - 1 Corinthians 13:4

Yandere might be just a fictional character from anime, but in reality, they're psychopath people you don't want to be. You can dream of the fictional yandere character all you want, I do dream and listen to ASMR yandere boy,  but keep in mind that you don't want a real-life yandere in your life. Thank goodness, and my family is protected from the blood of our Savior, Jesus Christ, but I still need to be cautious and careful too. Be careful, for you don't know where they might be, whether stalking you or hiding their identity, and don't blame anime for this type of situation, cause anime has nothing to do with this stuff.