There is no doubt about it, and statistics back it up, beautiful people get on better than those less fortunate in this regard. Beautiful people have to work less hard to get on. Pero paano bang nagiging attractive or beautiful ang isang tao?
Friend, are you an attractive individual? If not, this NOTE can help you!
Kung titingnan mo ang isang taong sinasabing attractive, you will be hard pressed to see what it is they've got that makes them good looking. Attractiveness, if we ignore the obvious physical impairments such as buck teeth or a warty nose-- all of which can be corrected-- is very hard to define. Take any Filipino celebrity, such as Dolphy, Rico Puno, Melay, Kiray who aren't classically good looking and we can see that they have charisma, charm, magnetism, a larger- than-life attitude. They come right out at you. They have life, presence, drama, power and personality.
You too must have these things. They are easier to acquire than looks anyway. Being attractive comes within -- 'know that you're being judged at all times.' If you dress well, pay attention to your grooming, cultivate that smile! Looks are all in the smile and the eyes. Smiles that light up a room are magnetic and powerful. Eyes that twinkle and are full of life are enough to make us think the whole face is good looking.
Attractiveness is also about posture and position. If you slump you give off an aura of gloom and depression. This is unattractive and not good looking.
Your walk should be erect, proud, assured. So should your handshake. Everything about you should be up and open, happy, and confident. Ito ang attractiveness. Your grooming should be faultless, your dress sense superb, your style quirky but suave, your whole demeanour splendid and outstanding. This is attractive.
I know that nobody is perfect but I believe everyone is unique. May dapat kang patunayan sa iyong sarili-- na ikaw ay natatanging nilalang na may taglay ding kagandahan. May dapat kang ipakita sa iyong kapwa-- ang iyong natatanging ganda! Yes, you are an attractive creation!
